From the monthly archives:

November 2009

Depression And Sex – What Happened To My Libido?

November 30, 2009

“What are you writing?” My brother – in – law, who has recently moved in with us for a spell while he gets his feet back under him asks me as I type away and pull out chunks of hair. “The folks at ToyWithMe asked me to do an article on depression. Since I live [...]

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7 Sex Positions I Won’t Be Trying Without A Helmet

November 25, 2009

My husband and I are about to celebrate our wedding anniversary on November 30th.  It’s been like…what? Seven years or something like that?  I can’t remember.  We’ve been together for 14 years and we shacked up together for six years before we got married for the health insurance so our kids wouldn’t be bastards and [...]

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Why I Sometimes Fake Orgasms

November 24, 2009

Every Sunday on my own blog, I run a column called Go Ask Aunt Becky, and while normally the questions that come in are a mixture of things that are designed to tease me, make me scratch my head or enlist my cadre of smarter friends for help, rarely do I get anything about The [...]

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Squirting Vaginas Freak Me Out

November 23, 2009

I feel like porn from the 70′s was awesome in a way that will never be repeated. It was a golden age, if you will. Women had gi – fucking – normous bushes that reached right over to the tops of their thighs. They had bad hair, weird skin, and were only moderately attractive, with [...]

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Brevity is the Soul of Bliss – In Defense Of The Quickie

November 20, 2009

If you haven’t seen it, you’ve been living under a rock. The stage is set with candles, romantic music, a just-eaten 14 course dinner and its tidy leftovers on the table, and the camera pans to the couple in bed, taking a breather after an intense session just before delving into another. It’s a cliche [...]

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Ophoria Beyond 1 G-Spot Vibrator Review

November 19, 2009

The fine folks at Ohporia were kind enough to send me their brand new Ophoria Beyond 1 G-Spot vibe for review. Yaaaay! My new friend arrived in a pale pink box that said Ophoria,”Sample for your review” and “Fine Bedroom Toys” on it. Yeah. And because of that, our delivery guy did a double take [...]

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Dear Redhead’s Sex Toy Poll

November 19, 2009

Awhile back, I asked my lovely little pet monkey followers to take part in an online poll about sex toys. You all rose to the occasion in fine form and some of you even responded to the actual poll questions. 127 of you, in fact. Collectively, I love how twisted you are. You did, however, [...]

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