Comments on: God Loves You. So Does BDSM

By: @AvionicsMan

@AvionicsMan — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 02:33:22 +0000

Great blog very insightful loved it!!

By: KinkyJew

KinkyJew — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:41:55 +0000

@ Aunt Becky – I don’t know who you were talking to. I’ve read your blog, and I’m assuming you were talking to me. So: bitch, it’s ON LIKE DONKEY KONG!!! Please tell me you like to do laundry…

By: KinkyJew

KinkyJew — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 01:14:05 +0000

Rose – I LOVE your enthusiasm. The link didn’t have any groups with which I was familiar, but that doesn’t mean anything. Another option is :http://www.br.org/blackrose/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=25&Itemid=34

JD – a “munch” is just a casual social gathering as a meet & greet. There’s no play, no scenes, it’s just a relaxed opportunity for someone to ask questions. You can get a definition here: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Munch_(BDSM)

For those who aren’t near anything at all, but want to see what’s out there and meet people in your area, you can join FetLife.com… but you have to promise to email me so we can be friends and I can feel all popular n’ stuff.

Otherwise, check out groups online, and see what does, and does not interest you. Not everything will appeal to you, which is fine. I hate needles. YEESH!! Can’t. Handle. Needles. Some people find them hot. BLARGH!!!

By: Aunt Becky

Aunt Becky — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 00:45:50 +0000

Dude. My already sky-high respect for you just went through the roof. Marry me?

By: Dear Redhead

Dear Redhead — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 00:24:02 +0000

Thanks for putting this info out there, KJ. What’s mainstream for some is outer limits for others. I just love the fact that we’re able to cover such a wide variety of topics in our columns here and inspire real dialogue and conversations with ToyWithMe.com readers! LOVE IT!

By: Rose

Rose — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 00:05:21 +0000

I found this link…it might help some people find stuff:

http://www.fetishscene.com/fetishscene/cgi/main.cgi

By: Rose

Rose — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 23:16:51 +0000

I love it!! Hey, I live in Washington state, too! I’d love to find places around here. I really would love to get into the world of BDSM because…stuff like being tied up wtih silk scarves and being spanked, etc, etc…sounds absolutely DELICIOUS to me. I would LOVE to try new things like a whole club of like minded people, who are as open about their sexuality as I am. Sometimes I forget how freaked out people can get if you talk about sex in any way, but I am learning when to keep my mouth shut. HAH…my friends come to me to ask for sex advice and what sex toy they should buy. HAH…

well, anyways, I will definitely look something up!

By: JD

JD — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:44:02 +0000

What’s “The Munch”? Kinkers, you’ve got me all intrigued n stuff…

By: KinkyJew

KinkyJew — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:32:39 +0000

JD – I can’t imagine that if you didn’t show your hubs you in, say, a sweet little schoolgirl outfit, or maybe the naughty-maid outfit, that his, erm, EARS wouldn’t perk right up. Really? No backwards cowgirl for you? Crissy – If it makes you feel any better, I think I was 10 when I learned that you didn’t get pregnant via kissing. That’s how sheltered I was. Thank goodness for that, cuz I would have been pregnant WAY too many times. Huzzah for the penis! @CT – That’s why you GO TO THE CLUB OR THE MUNCH!! You meet people. You like people. You fuck people. It’s all good. OMG, they would love your snark. They would bow to you as their queen. @Carm – No cameras yet. That’s what the January trip out to your coast is for. I mean… uh…. what?

By: carmalicious

carmalicious — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 19:23:35 +0000

Would you kindly tell me where you have placed the camera’s in my bedroom? I can totally see where you are getting your inspiration from for your KJ column…and kudos for getting them placed all the way in WA. STATE when you’re way the hell over on the WRONG coast without prior knowledge or consent…NOW I see why I have been given Honorary Jew status…it’s aaaaaaalllllllll coming together now. But seriously, KJ…you ROCK. I can’t imagine this place without you. Please never ever ever stop writing here. For without you…I wouldn’t have any new moves to speak of.