Comments on: How Does YOUR Garden Grow?

By: joeinvegas

joeinvegas — Fri, 04 Dec 2009 18:38:41 +0000

Guys notice. It’s just that we are so greatful to be close enough to see it that it slides by. But if you do want to make an impression, take it off. There is a reason porn stars and strippers do it: guys pay more to see that stuff without hair in the way.

By: Clair Jordan

Clair Jordan — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 20:23:01 +0000

My husband does like the clean shaven look. I’ve tried shaving but I too hate the prickly in between time. Nothing like wanting to scratch down there when you are in public!! I did decide to wax one time. I didn’t think anything of the fact that I am allergic to bandaids and adhesive – lets just say that the end result: Not attractive!

By: violet

violet — Tue, 03 Nov 2009 16:49:57 +0000

I used to trim but now I just shave it all off. To me it’s not so much about appearance but about cleanliness especially during THAT time of the month. I have been shaving so long that I don’t get the bumps from after shaving. I like to keep it clean down there. As for my partner, I don’t mind that he has hair, just as long as it doesn’t get in my way when we are getting busy.

By: Alex

Alex — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 17:37:28 +0000

I’m bald. I like it. I don’t bemoan the fact that I have in between stages, cause after a few years of waxing it has actually tamed mine.
The first wax I ever received the woman proclaimed, “Those are the deepest roots I’ve ever seen!” She also took an hour to do it, and gave me a fifteen minute break with a glass of wine in the middle. Ha.
Now days it’s a cinch. It takes 20 minutes, and my hair is softer and not as thick when it starts to grow back in. Some day maybe the laser…

By: s

Mon, 02 Nov 2009 11:09:21 +0000

I have always believed that grooming was very important–both what can be seen and what cannot.

By: Cakes

Cakes — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 06:12:48 +0000

Hair has never really been an issue for me, I think. Sure, growing up as a redhead/blonde (depending on how sunny it was), I got a lot more leeway in the locker room than did the brunettes. The hair on my legs, arms, pits, and face is very, very fine and very, very blonde. I dye or pencil in my eyebrows just so it looks like I have them. If I don’t shave for a few days, no one looking is any the wiser. My garden, well, it’s of a rosier hue and it’s fairly obvious.
The partners I’ve had were never very particular about grooming and I think that’s largely because access overrules grooming preferences for all but the most OCD people. As for men actually noticing and caring, well, let me relate a story from when I was 18. The boyfriend had gotten quite stubbly and kissing him became an exercise in masochism, so I did what any girl too insecure to simply ask for what she wants would do–I threatened him. “If you don’t shave your face, I’m going to stop shaving my legs.” His response? He simply pulled up his pant leg, revealing your average amount of manly leg hair and said, “I honestly don’t know the difference when you do or don’t.” I know that one’s bits are a different story, especially for those who enjoy giving and receiving oral affection, but I remember that to this day.
My hair (leg, pits, face, bits) has, since the age of 18, been ruled by feminist theory. When I want smooth legs for myself, or freshly-shorn pits, or a trimmed or shorn lady bits, then I do some maintenance. When I don’t care, the hair gets a bye. These days, now that I’m married (to a much hairier redhead), I pay less attention to my grooming. He doesn’t mind. Sure, he’s said that he enjoys “a clean workspace,” but when I’ve made the effort to shave, I haven’t gotten any action that night and by the next day, well, we all know how that goes. So I trim or I don’t and he makes do, with no complaints.

By: Joe

Joe — Mon, 02 Nov 2009 03:45:58 +0000

As a boy I was never told about nose and ear hair. That crap snuck up on me. Somebody should have sat me down and given me a heads up.
As for your stray hair on the nip and the little moustache, men know the hair exists. We do not care. Just maintain the obvious stuff.

By: Sam

Sam — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 20:00:44 +0000

As a man, I tend not to worry about it too much. There are two exceptions. If it gets too thick then it becomes impossible to get down there with your tongue. That is a problem. Shaved smooth is fine.. but stubble is BAD.

Weird that I am defined by how it impacts my oral sex experience.

By: Rose

Rose — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 18:05:31 +0000

HAHAHA….flossing teeth…that is FUNNY. I like it. Stealing that, definitely!

By: Toy With Me

Toy With Me — Fri, 30 Oct 2009 16:33:50 +0000

Like @DearRedhead I to am a maintenance freak. Nothing worse then a garden full of weeds.

Helpful tip to men – If you don’t already know, girls love it when you exercise a little lawn care yourselves. Flossing teeth is for before sex, not during.