Comments on: I Am A Cougar In Training

By: Petra aka The Wise (Young) Mommy

Petra aka The Wise (Young) Mommy — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 16:57:09 +0000

Meg, I am certainly not saying in order to be a cougar you have to fit into some definition of beautiful that includes a fake tan and perky boobs. Beauty is, indeed, in the eye of the beholder, and is exuded in the confidence of an older woman who knows what she wants and has respect for herself. That is real, true beauty.

So yes, you are beautiful. And a cougar, and there is nothing wrong with that.

By: Meg

Meg — Sat, 14 Nov 2009 16:44:35 +0000

I, too think cougars are unbelievably beautiful. Perhaps that’s part of the problem for me. Do we all have to be unbelievably beautiful to attract younger men? Or just men?

I am not unbelievably beautiful. On a good day, I manage quite attractive. I definitely don’t have a fake tan, my jaw line is a little soft and my boobs, though nice, no longer pass the “pencil test”. But, damn, my ankles look great in a pair of 4 inch heels!

I’ll give some thought to embracing the term, though, as I am schtupping the pretty boys.

By: Toy With Me

Toy With Me — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 18:25:22 +0000

Petra, I agree with your last comment about embracing the title Cougar. Right now I see the media using it to promote older women as pass their sell by date, with money, fake tans, to many face lifts and manufactured boobs. I think this image covers a very small percentage of the women who fit the true profile. Older, single, successful, independent and self confident. If more women embrace the term for what it truly stands for then public opinion will change right along with it.

By: Aune

Aune — Tue, 10 Nov 2009 17:48:44 +0000

When I grow up I wanna be a MILF

By: desperately seeking libido

desperately seeking libido — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 22:42:49 +0000

I’m at the gym 5 days a week just so I can be a MILF.

By: KinkyJew

KinkyJew — Mon, 09 Nov 2009 16:23:55 +0000

I would be so proud if someone called me a Cougar. I mean, when I think about that kind of an animal, I think sleek, sexy, aggressive but still graceful. How is that NOT a compliment? And hell yes! You should hide your boys when I come to town!!…. except I’m married. Damn. I’ve been de-fanged!!

By: Chais Meyer

Chais Meyer — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 13:45:36 +0000

Ok, I don’t have a vagina (I’m a married dude), hopefully my opinion will still matter.

If I have the opportunity for my wife to be a MILF (she’s well on her way without the “M” part) or just another over stressed, over worked, out of shape mom, I highly prefer the former! Why not take pride in your sexuality and your body? I know that I will do the same for her…In fact, I’m going to be a DILF (Dad I would like to Fuck) for those young 20 something females out there & and hopefully my wife will appreciate my efforts for her.

Peace,
Chais Meyer

By: Petra aka The Wise (Young) Mommy

Petra aka The Wise (Young) Mommy — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 13:14:03 +0000

Meg, you rock.

And I totally understand your feelings on people using cougar in a derogatory manner, but I really feel that if we embrace it and use it more in a humorous, complimentary manner, those connotations will go away, and those that use them will be considered passe. Nobody’s going to stop using the word, so why not be part of the movement to change the negativity surrounding it? That’s just my opinion…

Keep rockin’ it hot mama!

By: Jack

Jack — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 05:27:45 +0000

MILF: Noun. Acronym for “Mother I’d Like to Fuck,” made popular by the 1999 movie,

FWIW, that term was popular long before the movie. I am 40 and the boys and I had that as part of parlance in high school.

By: toywithme

toywithme — Sat, 07 Nov 2009 04:09:32 +0000

CP – Thanks for the link. Well written article. And those way sexy MILF legs (thanks Crissy) captivated my attention.