From the category archives:

Sexual Health

Boobie Wednesday Trading Cards

October 28, 2011

October is officially breast cancer awareness month and in light of that, my awesome sauce friends at Boobie Wednesday have put together a boob-a-li-cious non-profit fundraiser! Toy With Me fans, I present: Boobie Wednesday Trading Cards! Thanks to the fantabulous Wookiesgirl who saw promise in a friends idea and ran with it. Along with the help of her [...]

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Breast Cancer Survivor Gives Back! With Pleasure ;)

October 26, 2011

Every 30 seconds, someone in the United States is diagnosed with cancer. Last year, at age 37, I was one of those people.I needed a lumpectomy to remove the two cancerous areas in my right breast, six rounds of chemotherapy and 30 sessions of radiation. I knew that treatment would be tough, but I didn’t [...]

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Virgin Sexuality

September 15, 2011

Via Twitter, I had encountered this interview (1) concerned Ey’Van. She’s an African-American female blogger being interviewed about her blog which intertwines her perspectives on sexuality, sensuality, and intimacy (among other things). And as per usual, I found myself wondering, “Wow. That sort of thing must be nice. Getting laid and having a sexy husband [...]

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Lets Talk About Our Periods, OK?

January 26, 2011

You know what some people find really weird about me, Toy with Mes? Okay, first of all, SHUT UP because I’m only talking about ONE thing.  Yes, I know I’m fairly weird, but the thing that some people find particularly weird about me is my willingness to talk about anything to the Internets.  In case [...]

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Would You Take A Pill To Increase Your Libido?

October 13, 2010

If any of you lady Toy with Mes are like me, you have struggled with your libido from time to time. Having babies, dealing with the pressures of careers, family life, medical problems, financial issues, relationship woes, menopause, open genital sores, what have you, can make your libido go bye-bye thereby creating even more stress [...]

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My Mom, My Brother, And The Fishcunt

September 15, 2010

This post today is really mostly a public service announcement brought to you by my mother who rather insisted that I write about hygiene. She was just like, “I think people need hygiene lessons. I want you to teach them about basic hygiene through your blogging and you need to go into great detail because [...]

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Low Sex Drive In Men

September 14, 2010

For someone who lives in the Internet and writes a sex column, it’s pretty rare that someone actually asks me anything sex-related. Carrie Bradshaw from Sex in the City must have ruined that for any future sex columnists. Bitch. But, Toy With Me-ers, I was actually asked something that I was specifically asked to bring [...]

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