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Sexuality

In Search Of A Crystal Studded Ball Gag

June 15, 2010

This is part 3 of a series. Here is part 1 and part 2.
When we last left off, I had just told my friends that I had a mission, and although I wanted desperately to make a Blues Brothers “mission from God” reference since we were in Chicago, I couldn’t. No, my mission was simple: [...]

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What Does A Girl Wear To A Gay Bondage Conference?

June 8, 2010

So last time we spoke, Toy With Me-ers, I was telling you how I was going to SHOW my zombie neighbors (in my head, of course) what was what by going to a BONDAGE conference in my fair city of Chicago. It was time, in my opinion, to quit living life exclusively in the mini-van [...]

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Sex In The Suburbs

June 1, 2010

I don’t fit in well in the suburbs. Actually, let me rephrase that: I don’t fit in well in the mini-van lane in the suburbs. I’m not sure I’d do much better anywhere else, but I have my sneaking suspicions that the suburbs weren’t quite prepared for the pilgrimage of one Aunt Becky and her [...]

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My Interview With Dr. Trina Read

May 17, 2010

Sexologist, Dr. Trina E. Read, is a sought-after expert on women’s sexuality.
She is a best selling author, sex coach, regular television and radio talk-show guest, international speaker, magazine columnist, and spokeswoman. Her latest book is, Till Sex Do Us Part: Make Your Married Sex Irresistible. I am thrilled that Dr. Trina agreed to answer some [...]

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Men And Sex Toys – Double Standard?

May 12, 2010

A friend of mine asked me a really interesting question the other day.
He said to me, “Crissy, have you ever written anything about dudes who masturbate with like, pocket pussies and fleshlights and stuff because I feel like there’s a double standard.”
And I was all, “huh?” and my one Scooby-doo ear went up because that’s [...]

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When I Get On Top, I Keep Falling Off

May 11, 2010

The first time I realized that I could literally put my foot in my own mouth, I realized that I was probably some kind of genius that should make money off my own awesomeness. My brother called me a circus freak show, but that was probably unrelated to my bendiness. I just seemed to be [...]

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My Husband Posted Pictures Of Me On A Porn Site. I Liked It.

May 7, 2010

Sometimes I let my husband talk me into stuff.  Like this one time he talked me into letting him post sexy pictures of me on an amateur porn site. (HI MOM!)
What can I say?  It was an experiment, and I’ve got to tell you it spiced things up quite a bit because it was a [...]

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