I had always been tough to finish with oral. For years I had not been gifted with the big finally by oral. That is until a rather challenged lady came into my life. It was her goal to make it happen. The day came and I couldn’t get enough. Some bits were very sad at the split, but life goes on.

Some time later and comfortably settled in a new relationship, I missed it the same as you Moreoralplease. It just wasn’t the same. She tried. She was just as challenged. It just wasn’t in the cards. I was ok with it because she in every way was not my ex. Thankfully!

Sadly, it became a sore topic for her because she could not get me to finish. Not the other way around. The problem started because she had never encountered a man who she couldn’t finish. She was gifted with the badge of honor for her amazing oral ability by her former beaus. In her mind she was certain I was faking enjoying it. She then felt a nag that I was measuring her against the skills of my Ex because of her lack of success. It only took a little while until she couldn’t stand giving oral.

Our fix was a lot like Redhead recommends with maybe a new point or two.

Like it or no, I was the biggest part of the problem. I had it in mind at the beginning that I was going to be blown away. When I realized their styles and skills were different I resigned myself to making only about foreplay. Bad move. I, by my actions, reinforced to her that I thought her skills were lacking and I wasn’t enjoying it.

We overcame the issue by first talking about it. We arranged a little game of no finish unless it was by oral. Then she put the whammy on me! She did everything in her power to bring me to the brink with no follow through. I was willing participant, so I held my breathe for the better part of a week and a half! That, my friend, is an amazingly long stretch of being caught in a near finish. The haze of lust was always hanging over me.

In the end we found zones we never knew existed for each other. See, she was free to finish but I wasn’t. In my quest for release I would be willing to try anything to get her to explode so she would take pity on me. She finally agreed to close certain negotiations orally and it was a success. The lingering memory of survival mode left a certain brain of mine eager to please.

In the end she regained her oral confidence and I learned a varied set of skills I might otherwise have missed. Oral is now back on the menu. It isn’t 100%, but it isn’t the destination anymore as much as the journey.

I hope this helps along with the good medicine Redhead prescribed.

Some got it, some don’t. Be grateful you ever found someone who had it, there are a lot of guys missing out on more than you!

Honestly, I think some women just don’t have the ability to give good head, or they don’t enjoy it so they don’t put their all into it. Not everyone is going to like everything or be good at everything, and it might be something he has to live with, but of course if she is open to “guidance,” I give her all the credit in the world for keep on keepin’ on!

Bwahahahahahaha!!!

I’m totally using that.