BRAVO

I tire of all the SPIN that comes froms HOME-

WRECKERS and CHEATERS – despicable acts that are as or

more damaging than others our Law cites as Criminal.

Betraying your partner in marriage IS a DESPICABLE thing,

Equally despicable are those who engage intimately with

someone who is married. One commits an outright crime whilst

the other is a knowing accomplice. These people act in ways that

have SIGNIFICANT CONSEQUENCES FOR OTHERS.
They know it – they do it anyway.

I am always astounded by the constructed justifications

HOMEWRECKERS and CHEATERS present. Clinically they are DISORDERED individuals in the combination and prevalance of behavior that is: irresponsible, selfish, callous, untrustworthy, manipulative, deceitful, abusive and much more. That they try to defend their actions is further indication of the their disordered state.

RESPONSIBLE BEHAVIOR has allot to do with considering the

consequences for others. It is not about acting selfishly with little or

no care about consequences for others. A particular irony lies in

the fact that most FEMALE HOME-WRECKERS feel devastated

when the partner they have committed to CHEATS ON THEM! How small minded can one get?

Just like life itself – marriage is not always easy, fun, harmonious
and less likely so if you don't remain committed.

I feel for the VICTIMS of these people – and their ARE victims.
Good people who are guilty of nothing more than believing in another and were likely presented with reason to.
Good people who for a time accepted the others abusive ways in manifesting their continued commitment to that marriage.
Good people, many of whom have had their full life potential compromised by some despicable Cheater or Home-wrecker.

But thanks for saying what we're all thinking when this nonsense goes down! Great post.

So do not make things serious, don't expect the man to leave the family. Be aware that you enable cheating, and think before you decide. Can you live with yourself doing that? Repeat, DO not expect to steal the man away. Break up if you see that coming.

I'm sorry. But this site has gotten very selfrighteous, I think.
Some stuff here has been brilliant, some not so much. But more and more, it's been narrowing down what is OK in the world of sex and relationships. If it's not the way you like it, it's wrong and disgusting.

So. Thanks for an interesting time here.
Be well, be happy.
Goodbye

FML.

SOOOO many ways to twist it. Thanks for stopping by, dear! Always lovely to see you