Comments on: Open Letter to All The Men Who Maybe Want to Sleep With Me

By: straysparks

straysparks — Thu, 29 Jul 2010 03:10:13 +0000

I agree with absolutely everything but the condom part. But I know everyone those people have had sex with, and I'm perfectly okay having sex with them too. Except for that one bisexual guy who's had more partners and has been in more positions than I can count.

But we used a condom that time.

/<3

By: Michael

Michael — Sat, 24 Jul 2010 14:02:00 +0000

That is possibly the funniest blog posting I have ever read.

Love your writing.

By: Ashley

Ashley — Thu, 17 Jun 2010 14:01:36 +0000

I NEED every guy who even TRIES to talk to me to read that last paragraph first!

By: Kelly L

Kelly L — Mon, 01 Mar 2010 04:12:33 +0000

This is genius. Nicole, I love you. There, I said it.

By: nicole antoinette

nicole antoinette — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 05:49:03 +0000

Laura- HELL YES TO YOUR NUMBER 6

By: Toy With Me

Toy With Me — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 02:31:27 +0000

They love you Nicole. They are all wet and stiff for you.

By: Laura

Laura — Tue, 23 Feb 2010 02:24:14 +0000

Ahh Nicole, my life is so much better now that you and your blog are in it.

I think we really need to convince boys that the pill is not equal to a condom. They are not mutually exclusive. When I tell you I’m on the pill, that doesn’t mean the condom is out the window. Falsey false. Who taught boys that?

And as for the hand job, after one of my boyfriends insisted on moisturizing lotion or other such lubricant in like, 10th grade, I’m over them. Too much effort, too awkward, and mouths > hands.

Can we add perhaps a #6, that dry humping my leg doesn’t equal foreplay, either?

Great post. Printing it out and putting it on my bedroom door. I think this will save a lot of awkward morning afters in my future.

By: nicole antoinette

nicole antoinette — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 22:26:39 +0000

These comments are totally making me wet in the pants.

By: Nomad

Nomad — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 19:50:57 +0000

For a great story about the “condoms save you from everything” myth, plus a lot more great info and ideas, I highly recommend The Redhead’s latest post, “A Naughty Schoolgirl Mouths-Off About Abstinence.”

And to get back to one of our favorite parts of Nicole’s post (which is, overall, awesome. I’m afraid I hadn’t mentioned that yet.): Totally with you on handjobs. I think handjobs are for women who are afraid to give blowjobs, or men who are too shy to ask for them. Don’t be shy, boys. Ask (politely, please! No just shoving my head down there!) and you won’t be disappointed. Blow jobs are more interesting for both of us.

By: Nomad

Nomad — Mon, 22 Feb 2010 19:03:53 +0000

@Sarah: Read carefully (and perhaps go back to 2nd-grade English class) before you call my advice ridiculous. I did not say that herpes causes genital warts, cancer, or crabs. That was a list (starting with herpes) of sexually-transmitted infections that exist on parts of the body not covered by a condom. There are many problems, including herpes, and HPV (neither of which ever go away completely, even with treatment) that you can get even if you’re using a condom correctly.

BTW, I stated where I got my information. Where did you get yours, and how does it give you the right to call me ignorant? Condoms help prevent pregnancy and some STDs, but just because ads and posters have drilled that into our heads, it’s dangerous to take it as some sort of religious dogma that “everybody knows” that condoms will protect you from everything.

They won’t. We’ve got to be careful out there, folks, especially if we’re going to be adventurous, and being careful goes beyond just slapping on a holy condom. That’s all I wanted y’all to know.