Comments on: Why Do Men Cheat?

By: Shecheatedonme

Shecheatedonme — Mon, 27 Dec 2010 05:46:28 +0000

I'm always amazed at all the women that are incensed at men cheating – who do they think they are cheating with anyway – WOMEN!!!! It takes two to tango, some polls now put it that women actually cheat more than men – go figure!

By: scottt

scottt — Sun, 25 Jul 2010 07:18:57 +0000

There isn't a guy alive who wouldn't cheat if he knew he absolutely wouldn't get caught. Any guy who says otherwise is a liar. Why? Well let's put it this way..as much as I love mash potatoes but I don't want to eat them every night.

By: mystagenameis

mystagenameis — Wed, 12 May 2010 21:34:29 +0000

I think most people cheat for the same reason. We NEED to feel wanted and craved. After 13 years (you know, just as a RANDOM example) you are starting to feel taken for granted. He chooses to watch tv instead of ravish you. She would rather scrapbook than slither around in bed. Been there, done that … I wish I had just gotten a t-shirt. When love and passion has given way to routine and boredom …. FOR ONE PERSON then the heart starts to wander.
Men may be more likely to reach that point first. They are the more sexual side of most couples (not always) and they feel neglected more easily.

By: Subterfuge

Subterfuge — Sat, 08 May 2010 03:19:20 +0000

Not blaming her. My own fault. Can't take it back… did what I did, I feel the guilt, no going back is there?

Hate me, but there is truth for you.

By: GingerB

GingerB — Fri, 07 May 2010 05:43:53 +0000

I watched some big cheating happen in my family life, and it was so incredbily devastating. And I was really disappointed that my nephew (27 years old) had no time for how it made his mom feel to be cheated on, beause he still loves his dad and doesn't want tot get involved so he won't even acknowledge his mom's feelings and why she divorced him. My nephew has only had one relationship and had never had one end, let alone been cheated on after 15 years of marriage so he can't be expected to fully understand, but it still seriously pisses me off that we sort of expect men to cheat, and don't really find it surprising.

By: Tiffany

Tiffany — Thu, 06 May 2010 21:23:55 +0000

I love how you were so calm and rational when you found the chick in your apartment. Rock on.

By: Nic

Nic — Thu, 06 May 2010 19:26:53 +0000

I think women cheat not for sex but emotional connections. I think they find someone that gives them attention or affection they are lacking in their relationship.

By: Nona

Nona — Thu, 06 May 2010 18:30:51 +0000

Damn right. Although a true jury of peers, that being 12 women who had cheating men, would never convict.

By: ken

ken — Thu, 06 May 2010 17:27:09 +0000

(btw, c_p and ken are both me.)

By: Lessons in Life and Light

Lessons in Life and Light — Thu, 06 May 2010 16:30:23 +0000

I feel like saying, “That is the best story ever” is rather rude and insensitive, but it would make a hilarious movie scene.