Feeling bored with sex lately? These days, too many of us are choosing sleep, Facebook, books, movies, and even plucking our eyebrows over sex with our partners. It doesn’t take a genius to figure out why. After years together, we’re bored with the same sexual routine. We feel territorial about our bodies and our time, and sometimes we’re just lazy. Enter those evil sexpectations, when we focus more on whether we’re meeting our partners’ physical needs rather than our own. And how erotic is everyday life, with its mundane responsibilities, anyway?
Fortunately, getting our sexy back is easy. We all deserve to reclaim our inner sex goddess!
Here are three easy ways to ignite a spark and add some sizzle into your life!
Shake It Up
Sex is like dinner. We need a variety of main courses, side dishes, and desserts over the years to feel fueled and satisfied. So make a list of all the sexcapades you’d like to try and have your partner do the same. Explore role playing! It’s fun, remember how much we loved dressing up when we were little! Maybe firefighters makes you hot or you want to relive prom night. Maybe he wants you to be his dominatrix. Whatever might get you excited, get the props and toys and go at it!
Put Yourself First
Too often, we put everyone else’s needs before our own, and this carries over into the bedroom. When our sex lives start to drag, we may focus on our partner’s libido or frustrations rather than stoking our own desires. It’s easy to want to be the pleaser and giver when that’s what you do all day, right?!
Well, think about what you need. What gets you tingling down below? Do you like taking on a power role, or are you yearning for hubby to get rough and raunchy? Communicate your needs to your partner without blame or shame. Then go have some fun!
You can break out of the sex doldrums. In fact, you must. We all must, because we all deserve passion, romance, giggles, and goose bumps. And huge big O’s. We SO deserve amazing orgasms, and it shouldn’t have to be hard. Spend some time by yourself and really explore what makes you satisfied. We have plenty of toys recommended for you for whatever type of orgasm you enjoy. But, I’m saying you need to change it up and explore! Always use your trusty plugin wand that makes you cum in about 20 seconds? How about exploring your G-spot with some new toys that will hit you just in the right spot? By finding different ways that you get off, you’ll be more excited about trying these new toys with your partner!
As we all know: Great women deserve great sex! Own your love for your sexual body!!
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