Comments on: Confession – It Has Been A Year Since I Have Orgasmed

By: Valentina

Valentina — Sat, 02 Jan 2010 19:37:32 +0000

I have NEVER had an orgasm.

I would be HAPPY to go trough just a period of time of orgasm-less sex.

By: Miss Spoken

Miss Spoken — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 17:29:35 +0000

Such honesty! All around the Internet, women young and old are holding hands and singing Kumbaya …

By: curiously random

curiously random — Sun, 13 Dec 2009 00:30:53 +0000

I hear you about the frustration and it being in your head. I go through that sometimes when I’ve got a partner and things aren’t working out. Absolutely nothing can get me off if my head’s not into it, and I’m typically the kind of gal who can get off with just a touch in the right places and the right words in my ear. These days, not so much.

Have you been seeing a therapist? It might help. I’m in grief therapy right now and even the thought of having sex is off-putting to me at this point, the goal is to have me more balanced and back on track at some point.

Find the underlying cause and work it out. Get a massage. Take care of you. I know, it’s not that simple, but it’s all there is.

By: Little Mama

Little Mama — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 22:46:11 +0000

The ability to orgasm during sex it totally mental.

By: Alex

Alex — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:22:11 +0000

Just like with most things physical, as we get older it will change. Not in the disappointing sense. Just in the, “let’s find a new way to do this.” I keep pushing you to use your hands…they will always fit your hips:).
You do have the best stories, and I have no doubt that the next one we will be laughing out loud about will be, “I’ve found the perfect way…”

By: LeahKitten

LeahKitten — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 21:10:31 +0000

Aw loves, thanks for the love! It’ll happen again. At least the practice part is fun. It’s not meds my lovelies and for the record I don’t do drugs and I’m not afraid of masturbation.

It’s totally my head.

By: CP

CP — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 19:14:49 +0000

have you tried thc or mdma?

good times.

By: michelle brooks

michelle brooks — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 18:59:55 +0000

oh babe … tom’s advice was great … but if it’s not meds, which could be easily remedied … it’s the head.

a woman’s sexuality is driven by the mind… and if the mind is on something else, the orgasm will not happen… at least not the toe-curling, lovely, sometimes migraine inducing orgasm.

learn your body … it’s the only way to make it happen.

http://memachelle.blogspot.com/2009/07/are-you-smilin.html

By: Aunt Becky

Aunt Becky — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 17:43:50 +0000

Oh sweet-heart. This hurts me. Although, the new meds I’m on for my migraines, I can only hit it out of the park once in awhile. It’s really, REALLY sad. So I’m sorry.

That makes my vagina frown.

By: Toy With Me

Toy With Me — Fri, 11 Dec 2009 15:45:09 +0000

Tom – Good advice about the meds. For those who do take meds for depression or anxiety this is a very helpful article. http://toywithme.com/sexual-health/depression-and-sex/