Comments on: I should Have Been Born A Man

By: Bob

Bob — Tue, 08 Jun 2010 01:14:40 +0000

The first time I heard a woman say she wanted to fuck me I was shocked. Now I take it at face value. If i'm told they want to make love, I ask them if they are truly prepared and want to share intimacy, otherwise we can just fuck. Noting wrong with just making a sloppy mess. I do demand full intimacy from someone I love…sigh…and seldom get it.

By: M J

M J — Mon, 07 Jun 2010 19:42:23 +0000

Sometimes mens feeling of desire diminish because they have diminishing testosterone in their system…something as simple as a testosterone cream can bring the sex back!

By: toywithme

toywithme — Thu, 15 Apr 2010 20:45:13 +0000

It's always rewarding to hear that an article, especially written by a guest, is helpful to my readers. Taking the slow approach can be very frustrating when you're the one who is always ready to "rock n' roll" Maybe it wouldn't hurt to explore some "one on one" time with yourself and perhaps a little battery operated friend. It might lessen the tension you feel when you can't get what you are truly after. Just a thought.

By: Lady M

Lady M — Wed, 14 Apr 2010 23:29:33 +0000

My guys motto is "date dirty, marry clean" so apparently I too, was allowed at one point to be "dirty" but now have to be all miss priss!? He's getting better as I have explained I'm still the same person he started with, that like to give head in the parking lot in the car…lol

By: Holly

Holly — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 20:18:25 +0000

I am so glad I found this. I have been struggling with this for a while now. A while! And I've never been able to put exact words to what I was feeling or what my partner may be feeling, and now I can. I just nearly sent this link to him (he's upstairs in his office, we talk online, we're insanely nerdy) and wanted to be all "I GET IT NOW!!!" But instead I'm just going to take your pointers here and see what happens.

My partner is nearly 10 years older than I am and at first we were going at it like jack rabbits constantly. I'd call him up and tell him I wanted to "hang out" which he knew was "get over here and fuck me and then leave me alone unless you want to fuck me again once you get your second wind." That was how I was for so long and it worked for me. Then we moved in together. Still going at it like jack rabbits. After a few months, we were going at it maybe five times a week and two days off was fine with me. Now we're at 4 1/2 years and I have been getting laid maybe three times a week. MAYBE. Of course, being the very woman-like woman, I immediately think there is something wrong with me. I've tried toys, lingerie, the old approach of ordering him to fuck me. All to no avail. And it frustrated the fuck out of me. What I didn't understand was that I have been with someone in the past who was more than 10 years older than me and who had a higher libido than I did and absolutely loved that I was always ready to go and with a nap, would be ready multiple times a day, so to say the least, I had immense confusion.

But now I get it! Ohh those sneaky men. Now. How in the hell am I going to take the slow approach, because sometimes it just kills me and I really find myself wanting to scream "Come on! Let's go! Take me now!"

By: sad

sad — Tue, 13 Apr 2010 16:31:06 +0000

great paragraph – am saving it myself too!
thanks (first time i've smiled about the whole thing)

By: @polygeorge

@polygeorge — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 18:21:19 +0000

Different people have different needs (duh!).

By: CP

CP — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 15:10:18 +0000

in no way do i want to condone cheating, but it’s this sort of thing that makes it more understandable.

what you can’t (ever) get at home you’ll (try to) get somewhere else!

IMO women are as filthy and as horny as men are, it’s just a LOT less PC for them to express it. no wonder, if when they do they are met with these kinds of reactions.

By: Paul

Paul — Mon, 12 Apr 2010 02:22:17 +0000

Your husband, Nancy, needs to have his man card pulled. I'm 40 and would dearly love for my wife to crawl up on my lap and whisper "fuck me" in my ear. The ONLY response is to do just that. As for keeping up – better living through chemistry, they make Viagra, Levitra and Cialis for a fucking reason.

By: Tanya

Tanya — Sun, 11 Apr 2010 10:08:16 +0000

Isn't it? I wish I'd written it myself.