Comments on: Brevity is the Soul of Bliss – In Defense Of The Quickie

By: katryn

katryn — Wed, 24 Feb 2010 21:07:16 +0000

this post got me thinking about a marathon session with a favourite fuckbuddy that i hadn’t seen in a while – we took some red wine and crisps to bed with us and took our time, breaking every now and then for some chips and swig of wine. so there we were, 30 minutes into the marathon when i started to really burn up down there – took me a while to realise it was the crisps. they were chilli flavour hehe

By: ThatToyChick

ThatToyChick — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:59:21 +0000

So, by “permanent impression”, do you mean one of memory? Or Wil-E-Coyote style in the bedframe? Cause I gotta tell ya, the mental imagery of the latter is hilarious!

By: Ink

Ink — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 05:05:41 +0000

My last gentleman and I tended to aim for quickies and end up with marathon sessions, which was hilarious to me; I am normally one to conk straight out after an orgasm. To find someone who not only turned me on enough to get me off, but who turned me on while *I* was getting *him* off – and vice versa, so that it’d end up going in a loop for hours – was about as astonishing as it gets.

The one time we managed it was when I was teasing him for continuously hitting the “snooze” button one morning. I told him he could push it one more time, but after that I was going to resort to drastic measures because otherwise we’d be late to work.

I resorted to said measures. Neither of us were late to work. And I think I left a permanent impression that still holds up to this day.

By: mivox

mivox — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 04:34:54 +0000

I know any woman who’s ever wished her man would last a little longer will hate me for saying this, but sex lasting less than an hour is a rare exception in my life lately … and dammit, I MISS QUICKIES!!!

By: ThatToyChick

ThatToyChick — Tue, 24 Nov 2009 04:09:50 +0000

Oooh CP, you can do that? That’s one thing I can honestly say I never thought of. *scribbles it down for future reference*

By: CP

CP — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 16:16:27 +0000

plus, water evaporates.

i love silicone lube. so much that i bought a half gallon off of ebay from a chemical supply house (dimethicone).

By: ThatToyChick

ThatToyChick — Mon, 23 Nov 2009 00:42:56 +0000

Andie – While silicone lubricants can last for awhile, most of the gals I know opt for water-based for PIV sex, for several reasons…cost and ease of clean up being the most common. The reason water-based lubricants will get sticky or gummy, essentially “wearing off”, is that your body is absorbing the water – i.e. most of what’s in your lube – and leaving the ‘other stuff’ behind. Hence, a common experience during marathon sessions is either having chaffing after the lube wears off, or having to reapply fairly often (depends on the..er..enthusiasm of your partner’s technique, shall we say?)

You are likely a woman who produces a lot of natural moisture, so that’s awesome! I’m always happy to hear of people having a good time at sex, regardless of the helper(s) involved. In defense of my guy, my partner is excellent as well, I just don’t lubricate copious amounts naturally, a common experience of women on certain medications. So yep, you are lucky!

Have fun!

By: andie

andie — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 12:49:06 +0000

Oh yeah BTW the NASA crack wasn’t really that funny! You think its bull but what makes you think that? I’ve had 4hrs of great awesome sex w no chaffing… Only k y warming gel and orgasms over and over… No utis… Soreness yes but well worth it! Guess I just have a great lover LUCKY ME!!!

By: andie

andie — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 12:39:00 +0000

I think your article got the point across. I’m sure we all usually do the quickie. For us the marathons come about 2or3 times a year! I savor those moments… Quickies are tolerable… Not what I want but what must be. I am a sex fein if we left the definition up to sum of you!! Household chores work blah blah blah…. When its time for bed my husband and I are all GO!!!

I know what a hard day is like. We have 9 children ages 17yrs old-15mos… I have them home ALL the time!! We don’t ship them off to school I teach them @ home! Talk about work! There is a 1yr old a 2yr old AND a 3 year old! We have a 5bd 2 story house with all the extra everything. Sounds nice and it is but when it comes to cleaning.. Omg we rotate chores 3times a day to keep up. With a full time mothering position, teacher, cleaner, baker seamstress referee, counselor, nobody can say I dnt know what a hard day is like. Even after all that I do during the day nothing can diminish the thrill of being alone with my soulmate, even if its a quickie. Of course I would perfer the marathons over the quickies tho.

By: Karyn

Karyn — Sun, 22 Nov 2009 05:09:17 +0000

I’m with most of ya’ll. The IDEA of a marathon session is great, but… seriously, there’s a ton of things I like to do with my man, and only part of them are in bed. Luckily for me, orgasms are pretty easy to get, just with reg sex, so … both of us are satisfied, I still get my 6 hrs sleep, and there’s plenty of time to play around. I can’t handle a whole lotta foreplay, because I’ll get bored, so 3 hrs of fore wouldn’t work for me! It sounds awful to say I’d get bored, but it’s more that I get really distracted, and lose focus.

Well, we just had a baby 3 weeks ago. My poor husband isn’t getting anything! lol I think he’d kill for a quickie right about now.