Also, if you took two seconds to realize women deal with male ejaculate (yes, its messy, we hate it getting on the bed) but its a fact of life women accept, and you would be smart to return the favor (or else your hand will be your only friend).

Men generally find pride in making a girl cum- & I’d bet you’d be feeling the same way.

I would also like to point out often porn over emphasizes all aspects of sex and squirters normally only produce the same volume as the cum an average man produces. So please quit knocking something you’ve only seen in porn.

I’ve squirted before, but it’s rare. It’s always a pleasure when it happens and I enjoy it, as do those on the receiving end. I think it’s a healthy, happy thing to happen, but I don’t really need to see it happen on camera. It just looks weird.

Women are still a group that it’s socially acceptable to shame and hate. We live in a rape culture, a culture rife with domestic violence and other violence against women. It’s disappointing that a woman would help perpetuate hatred and shame of women’s bodies in such a culture. I realize this was not what the Kinky Jew intended, but what people were trying to do here, and often failing, myself included, is to point this out to her. Some people got personal, I was attempting to use examples that might hit home but not directly put down the Kinky Jew, but this was a piss poor choice on my part, and again I apologize.

I’m not a clear thinker when I’m emotionally upset. I should have kept my fingers off the keyboard. I just get pissed off that we live in a culture where women are made to feel bad about their natural odors and natural body fluids. We’re told we need either vaginal deodorants or to douche to “clean” ourselves, as if we are smelly and dirty. Vilifying women’s bodies is hurtful, and it only adds to the ability for sexists to view women as lesser or of no value.

So, hopefully my apology is accepted. And I would bet that people who know me know that no offense was intended, and as I’m someone who will take responsibility for their mistakes I have come here to apologize for any hurt my terrible analogy caused.

However, I appreciate Kinky Jew’s apology, and anti-semitism should never be brought into this. As a fellow Jew, I hope you understand that is not something that I ever intended. I do appreciate your ability to recognize that not everybody saw the humor in the post, and that’s okay.

The first time it happened to me, I was embarassed and didn’t know exactly what it was. I had to research it online, and if I had come across this article, I’m fairly certain I would’ve been embarassed and scared that it might happen again. Thank goodness I’ve had supportive lovers. I’ve come (haha) to embrace the fact that I squirt as just another part of my sexuality. All of my lovers have liked it, mostly due to the fact that they know, without a doubt, that I’m enjoying myself. Just last night, I was told that it was “the fucking hottest thing ever.” It’s not as uncommon as you’d think.

I suppose that I am mostly disappointed that on a site for women, run by women, that we would find an article that could make women feel embarassed or ashamed over something that is something that is natural and they have no control over.