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The fleshlight, who doesn’t know this top-class adult toy?! It has become a go-to for guys looking to improve their stamina in the sack, or just have some fun on their alone days. But, one question always seems to come up: How can I choose the best flashlight for me?

There are so many different shapes, sizes, colors and textures that it can be hard choosing the right one for the job. When looking for the best fleshlight to fit your needs, there are a few things you need to take into account. Below we will help you discover what fleshlight will work best for you and discuss just a few of the different options there are.

What is a fleshlight?

If you are unsure of what this much used and approved men’s sex toy is, you have missed a whole lot of fun! A fleshlight is simply a male masturbator (replicated vagina, anal or oral opening) which feels just like the real thing! With the fleshlight, you can get the practice you want, and have fun while you are doing it. These sex toys are made to feel as realistic as possible to ensure you have the most life-like experience achievable.

The name comes from the fact that it looks like a flashlight when stored, but the inside is made to feel as much like the real thing as possible, hence “flesh light”. A truly original idea, this male sex toy may be the best-known one of the bunch!

The Fleshlight is a certain brand of pocket pussy, and the most sold one. Even though these names are often used in the same manner, there is a difference. A pocket pussy is the category of male sex toys the fleshlight falls within, and a fleshlight is simply the name of the brand. If you want to check out other brands of pocket pussy you can view the page on our website on pocket pussies.

How to Choose the Best Fleshlight for Your Needs

When choosing a fleshlight there is a lot to think about and finding the best fleshlight for you isn’t always as easy as it looks. There are certain things that make a big difference, and other differences which are more subtle, yet still important. We will go into each feature one by one to ensure you make the best choice and enjoy your fleshlight as much as possible!

The best thing to do would be to borrow a friend’s or take a model for a test drive but I think we can all understand why this probably isn’t the best idea. Although it may be tempting (or not), it’s best to buy your own and enjoy trying it out on arrival. That’s why we have created this overview!

Texture and intensity

The texture you choose is very important to ensure you choose the best feeling fleshlight for you. And boy, there are a lot of textures! The best fleshlight texture can differ from person to person and is obviously a matter of preference but, how do you go about finding the best feeling flashlight for you?

A few things to remember are that the more texturized the inside is, the more stimulating the sensation will be and the more it will test your endurance. Something else to take into account is the reason for purchase: Are you buying it to improve your stamina or will you primarily be using it for pleasure?

There are a lot of different sleeves, and these will all provide a different texture and level of intensity. However, there are also vibrating ones, which will again increase the intensity of use. Depending on the intensity you are looking for you can select a different sleeve or even vibrating models!

Fleshlight has clear pictures on their site showing you what the inside looks like and this will give you an idea about the stimulation they will provide. This ensures you can make the right choice!

When you take these things into account you should be able to make a good choice regarding the texture. Fleshlight lets you build your own, or you can buy the normal models they have so your choice of texture will be an important one.

Size

Obviously, your penis size is something you should at least take into account when purchasing your fleshlight. However, the size of the toy itself is also something you should think about and may be more important. If you don’t have space to keep a larger model you may be better off getting a smaller one. Luckily, all models show the sizes so this choice should be easy.

Most fleshlights are suitable for most penis-sizes, so unless you are an exception then this shouldn’t be a problem.

Ease of use

Some of the models have vibrators or are fully automated! The ease of use is something to take into account as these things may be exactly what you are looking for, or may be exactly what you don’t want. The way you use, or can use, your new toy may be a make or break thing, this can lead you to the right decision.

Also, some models are easier to clean than others and this can be something to take into account too! No one likes spending a long time cleaning, luckily all fleshlights can be taken apart so they are easily cleaned.

Anal, oral or vaginal?

A question that has troubled men throughout history! This question surfaces once again when selecting your fleshlight and you should think about it before deciding on the model you want to buy! If you want to live out your anal fantasies then a butt version may be better than an oral or vaginal one for example.

The look

There are some out of this world designs that are created to mimic mystical beasts or aliens. There are also see-through models if this is what floats your boat. There are a host of different models and taking your time to browse around and find the best one will make sure you make the best choice you can!

16 Of The Best Fleshlights:

Stamina Training Unit: Lady

For People Who Take Training Seriously

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The Stamina Training Unit: Lady model by fleshlight was created to help you improve your stamina during those wild nights you have. It has been made to simulate intercourse in the best way possible so you can make sure that next time you hit the bedroom, you can do the deed filled with confidence.

Most fleshlights are great for stamina training but this model was especially designed with this reason in mind. You may not feel that stamina training is necessary, but your partner may think differently about this… This adult toy has proven a great investment for many men!

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Great for training stamina

Stoya – Destroya

Destructive and Seductive Toy

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The Stoya – Destroya model is one of the more stimulating fleshlights of the bunch and will finish you before you have even gotten started if you’re not careful! This fleshlight was designed after Stoya and is great if you want strong stimulation, but without the hassle. This model doesn’t disappoint it’s users and you can check the reviews if you don’t want to take our word for it.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Modeled after Stoya, strong stimulation

Turbo Thrust (Blue Ice)

For When You Feel Like Letting Out Some Turbo Thrusts

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This fleshlight has been created to give you the best simulation of a blowjob that they could provide. It mimics the lips, tongue and throat, so no matter how you like it, this fleshlight will provide you the satisfaction of a blowjob in the way you like it best! This model feels unreal and they have really done their best to make it as realistic as possible.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Feels exactly like a blow job, mimics lips, tongue and throat

Janice Griffith – Eden

Medium Tone, Maximum Pleasure

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This model comes with a medium tone skin color and is a highly arousing toy for most men! As this is a tight model with great stimulation, pleasure is guaranteed. This fleshlight has been modeled after Janice Griffith, a porn star that is truly loved by all her fans.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Very stimulating, model created after Janice Griffith

Flight Aviator

Take Off and Get Off With This Fleshlight

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The Flight Aviator is a smaller and sleeker model made to ensure ease of storage. If you are looking to travel any time soon then this model if perfect to take with you! This fleshlight has a very lifelike feel and is a must-have for anyone who isn’t too keen on the larger models.

This one is definitely a contender for the best cheap fleshlight on the market!

Length: 8 inches
Insertable length: 6 inches

Pros: Great to travel with, compact, one of the cheaper fleshlight models

Lana Rhoades Destiny

Could It Be Destiny?

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If you plan on getting your hands on a Lana Rhoades Destiny fleshlight then there are many men who have gone before you. None of them would advise you otherwise. With this fleshlight you will receive truly sensational stimulation which will leave you wanting more!

This fleshlight has a tight entry and is one of the more stimulating ones in this line-up. If you think you have the stamina then why not test it out?

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Modeled after Lana Rhoades

Elsa Jean Tasty

Stimulating and Fulfilling Fleshlight

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This Elsa Jean tasty model was modeled after Elsa Jean and boy will this toy bring you joy! Truly stimulating and fulfilling, this toy was made to please! It does exactly what it is made for.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Modeled after Elsa Jean

Sex In A Can: Sukit Draft

Does What It Says on the Tin

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If you aren’t so secure about your fleshlight use then this Sex In A Can: Sukit Draft edition is the solution for you. Made to look like a normal can, hiding inside is a mouth that will get the job done. This model will please you in private but will still provide a truly stimulating experience.

Length: 8 inches

Pros: Very undercover, slightly smaller than the other fleshlight models so easier to store

Eva Lovia – Spice (Butt)

This Toy Will Add Some Spice to Your Life

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The Eva Lovia – Spice (Butt) edition was modeled after the porn star Eva Lovia. This fleshlight will leave you not knowing what hit you. If you have fantasies of “butt stuff”, then this may be the perfect toy for you.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Modeled after Eva Lovia, butt model

Quickshot: Vantage

The Easiest Fleshlight to Clean

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The Quickshot: Vantage is ideal for everyday use and makes cleaning as easy as the use itself. This model is about half the size of normal models and has an open end at either side. Don’t think this will take away from the effectiveness however!

This model is also in the race for the best cheap fleshlight there is!

Length: 4.4 inches
Insertable length: 3.5 inches

Pros: Smaller so easy store, very easy to clean, even easier than the normal fleshlight models, one of the cheaper models that fleshlight offers, great for use during sex

Jenna Haze Obsession

This Toy Will Become a True Obsession of Yours

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This model, modeled after porn star Jenna Haze, starts off a little wider and less stimulating but gets tighter and more arousing the further you go through. Many people adore this texture and some of the reviews on this product, like the product itself, are out of this world.

Length: 9.75
Insertable length: 8.5

Pros: Modeled by Jenna Haze, great texture

Dillion Harper Crush

A Combination of Five of the Best

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Dillion Harpers very own fleshlight combines five of the best feeling features of previous successes. This tight channel of pleasure will leave you wanting to go deeper at every level you reach. All five textures inside are some of the best selling textures fleshlight offers and this is why this may be the most stimulating texture of the bunch.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Modeled after Dillion Harper, great stimulation

Go Torque Ice

A Toy for on the Go

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Go Torque Ice is for the busy man who wants a fleshlight to take with him on his travels. This model was created to simulate one of the most popular fleshlight models, but then as a lighter and more portable version. If you don’t want to haul around a full size fleshlight, then this one may be ideal for you.

Length: 7 inches
Insertable length: 6.5 inches

Pros: Smaller so easier to store and travel with

Lisa Ann – Barracuda

The Toy Filled With Sensation

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The barracuda texture is unmatched when it comes to sensation and there is nothing else quite like it. This is Lisa Ann’s model and it always leaves you satisfied, yet bizarrely wanting more. You will have to check this texture out yourself to see what we mean.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Modeled by Lisa Ann, very stimulating

Ice Lady

The See-through Fleshlight

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If you’ve ever wanted to see what’s happening down there while you are putting in work, then the Ice Lady model is perfect for you. This model is completely see-through and you will see exactly what is happening down there. This isn’t something you can usually see, and there are many men who love this model for precisely that reason.

Length: 9.75 inches
Insertable length: 8.5 inches

Pros: Completely see-through so you have added visual stimulation

Adriana Chechik Next Level (Butt)

The Toy That Is Truly Next Level

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This butt model will give you the opportunity to live out your anal fantasies. And being Adriana Chechik’s model you know it will deliver a supreme sensation! If you are looking for a great anal model, this may just be your best choice.

Length: 9.75
Insertable length: 8.5

Pros: Modeled by Adriana Chechik, butt version

Sex Dolls

If you want a much more varied experience, then a sex doll may be a better purchase for you! Sex dolls come in multiple different varieties and if you are looking for a more “full body stimulation”, a sex doll may be better suited to your needs.

FAQ’s

How to clean your fleshlight?

Cleaning your fleshlight is obviously very important, but the material it’s made out of doesn’t react well to most cleaning products. For this reason, cleaning your fleshlight can be a bit of a challenge even though they have been created for easy cleaning. Luckily, we are here to help!

The fleshlight is very useful, as it can be disassembled into four parts, and the fleshy inside can be removed and cleaned with water. It’s best practice to wipe this part off very well after every use using a wet paper towel/cloth (Warm water please!). Most soaps and anything that contains rubbing alcohol can also have a negative effect on the fleshlight and over time this can cause wear and tear.

So, apart from water, what can I use to wash my fleshlight?

No worries – we have just the thing!

Fleshwash is designed specifically for cleaning your fleshlight and won’t cause any negative effects on the material used. It’s important to keep your fleshlight in good condition and cleaning it is very important too. This is why Fleshwash is the best thing to use when cleaning your fleshlight.

Does my penis size matter when choosing a fleshlight?

Not really. Unless you are an extreme example, most of the fleshlight models will work great for all penis sizes. Most of the models have an insertable length of 8.5 inches, but that doesn’t mean you have to reach the end!

If you are looking for the best fleshlight for a small penis then the three models mentioned above: the Go Torque Ice; the Flight Aviator and the Quickshot: Vantage, are great models to try out. These models are slightly smaller so you can still experience the full stimulation of these models.

You can also try some of the tighter models, even though these are bigger. If they have a tight opening then you can still enjoy the full sensation of the toy. However, as we’ve said, usually you won’t have any problems regarding penis size.

Will other people know what I’m ordering?

This is an understandable question and we know that you may not want your postman or bank knowing what you are ordering. Luckily, fleshlight offers discreet shipping and billing, so there’s nothing to worry about!

Do fleshlights really feel real?

Yes, most do! Some are made more for stimulation purposes, but most do feel very real. The only way you will know for sure is by trying them though!

How to use your fleshlight, some tips:

  • Try holding your fleshlight in warm water so it heats up a little. This can improve the sensation you get when using it and will make it feel even more real!
  • Lube up! Lubing up will obviously improve the sensation and make the whole experience a lot more pleasurable. This will also avoid any unwanted friction and make everything go a lot smoother.
  • Use water based lube! Oil based lubes are not advised as these will break down the material the fleshlights are made out of. Use a good water based lube to ensure you will be able to enjoy your toy for a long time to come.