What is a Fleshlight?

Basically, it’s a pocket pussy in a form of a flashlight. When playing with this sex toy you want to make sure that you are using the best lube for Fleshlight.

What was originally designed as a “device for discreet sperm collection” now is one of the best-selling sex toys for men. The material used in the inner sleeve is very “flesh-like”, which gave it its name.

The inner sleeve is available with the orifices of an anus, mouth, or pussy. There are about fifty different internal textures.

Top Picks:

Fleshlube Water
Astroglide Liquid
Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant
System JO H2O Water-Based Lubricant
Doc Johnson TitanMen Water-Based Lube Glide
Pjur Aqua Water-based Personal Lubricant
ID Glide Natural Feel Water Based Lube
Gun Oil H2O Water Based Lube

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How to Choose a Lube for a Fleshlight

When choosing a lubricant for your fleshlight make sure it is the right one because there are some that could actually destroy it.

  • You should look for water-based lubes as they are safe for all sexual activities. They are usually free of color, taste, smell, and stain so anyone can use them.
  • Make sure that the lube is long-lasting and smooth.
  • If you have a sensitive skin, try to avoid parabens, phenoxyethanol, glycerin, propylene glycol or chlorhexidine if possible.
  • The lube should be easy to clean off.
  • You should consider your skin type so you do not get a lube that will irritate or is harsh to your skin.
  • Check the viscosity, or thickness, of the lube. The higher the viscosity the more pleasure you will have because it will last longer.
  • Make sure that the lube you choose is not too sticky.
  • When selecting a lubricant make sure you choose a trusted brand.

Why Use a Lube With a Fleshlight

  • It will help to enhance the pleasure you get from using this sex toy. It will make you feel like you are making love to the real thing.
  • Without a lube you may have a painful experience.
  • It can also help to prevent injuries because if it is dry it could leave tears on your penis or friction burns.
  • Using a lubricant will help to increase the longevity of your Fleshlight because without lube it will wear out faster.

8 Best Lubes for Fleshlights:

Fleshlube Water

Ideal Lube from Fleshlight Creators

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This lube is made in the United States with the highest quality medical grade ingredients. This lube will give you a smooth silky feel that will enhance your fleshlight experience. It is natural, hypoallergenic, and gentle on sensitive skin. This lube is easy to clean off a fleshlight and your body. It is also fabric safe, which means it will not stain your bedding or clothing.

Pros: Non-sticky, paraben-free

Cons: Can be a bit messy

Astroglide Liquid

Natural Feel

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One of the big pluses of this lube for Fleshlight is that it has been designed to mimic your natural body fluids. It helps to enhance the ease and comfort of those intimate moments. It also can be used with a condom. Astroglide Liquid is long lasting, extra slick, and petroleum free. And it’s easy to clean up. A little bit of this lube will go a long way.

Pros: Has a two-year expiration date

Cons: There is a chance it could stain delicate clothes, does contain some propylene glycol and glycerin

Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant

The Original Water-based Lube That Will Go the Distance

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The Sliquid H2O Original Water-Based Lubricant is another great lube to use for your fleshlight and it will go the distance too!

This water-based lube is body friendly, which means it’s hypoallergenic, non-toxic, odorless and flavorless. This makes it the ideal lube for people with sensitive skin or people who tend not to react well to other lubricants.

If this wasn’t enough, the lube is also 100% vegan. All of these features make it an ideal lube for sensitive people or animal fanatics. Also, the lubrication it provides is extremely good!

This lube is priced at the higher end of this list but does come with some added benefits that some of the other lubes on this list may not. A great choice if you’re conscious about the planet or have trouble with other lubricants.

Pros: Hypoallergenic, non-toxic, odorless and flavorless lubrication; 100% vegan; Good for people with sensitive skin; Good level of lubrication

Cons: Some reviews state it’s a little too runny for their liking

System JO H2O Water-Based Lubricant

The Strong Lube Ideal for Your Fleshlight

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Another great lube to use with your fleshlight, the JO H2O Water-Based Lubricant is another strong lubricant which will make your use of the fleshlight easier and a whole lot more fun!

This water-based lube is extra long-lasting and has been made to have an extreme lubrication effect. This makes it an ideal lube for having hours of fun with your fleshlight. A great lube to use when training your stamina too!

The Systems JO H2O Water-Based Lubricant doesn’t go tacky and is odorless and flavorless to prevent any funky smells or tastes. This lube is safe to use with all toys and condoms, which makes it an ideal all-purpose lube as well.

This lube washes off easily and doesn’t contain animal byproducts which makes it a great bedroom addition for animal lovers. It’s priced at the slightly higher end of this list but is a fantastic lube at a fantastic value in our eyes.

Pros: Provides long lasting and potent lubrication; Odorless, flavorless and doesn’t go tacky; Compatible with all condoms and toys; Contains no animal byproducts

Cons: It’s a little more expensive than some of the other options

Doc Johnson TitanMen Water-Based Lube Glide

The Multipurpose Lube That Works Great With All Toys

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The name says it all… A great lube for men, also a great lube to use with your fleshlight.

The Doc Johnson TitanMen Water-Based Lube Glide is a multipurpose lube that works great with all toys. It’s also vegan-friendly and PETA-certified which makes it a great lube for environmental enthusiasts! Might as well do your thing for the planet while doing your thing…

This water-based lube is dye-free and fragrance-free which prevents any nasty problems occurring due to use. It also comes in a large bottle which again makes it ideal for use with your toys. No more running out of lube half way through your session.

This lube is priced in the higher level of the middle of the pack, making it a great lube to use in conjunction with your fleshlight, or any toys for that matter.

Pros: Vegan-friendly and PETA certified lube; Dye-free and fragrance-free; Large bottle

Cons: Can turn a little sticky if not washed off properly

Pjur Aqua Water-based Personal Lubricant

The Fleshlight Lube That Doesn’t Contain Animal-based Glycerin

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The Pjur Aqua Water-based Personal Lubricant is another great addition to this list and is fantastic to use together with your fleshlight.

This water-based lube is paraben-free and only contains vegetable glycerin. This may not be the ideal option for people with very sensitive skin, but it is a good option for those who don’t want animal products in their lube.

This lube is hypoallergenic which does make it suitable for people who suffer from allergies and it’s also safe to use with a condom. Just in case you decide to trade your fleshlight in for the real thing one night. This lube provides a high level of lubrication which makes it great in any situation.

The Pjur Aqua Water-based Personal Lubricant is priced in the middle of the pack and is a great model if you aren’t looking to spend too much for high-quality lube.

Pros: Provides hypoallergenic lubrication; Compatible with condoms too; High level of lubrication

Cons: Does contain (vegetable) glycerin

ID Glide Natural Feel Water Based Lube

Easy-to-reactivate Lube

id glide natural feel water based lube
This lube is doctor-approved and can be re-activated with just a drop of saliva or water so a little lasts a long time. There is no need to add more lube. It is hypoallergenic so it is great for those with sensitive skin. It is compatible with condoms and latex and is also adult toys safe. It does not get sticky but has a natural feel. This lube is also easy to clean off.

Pros: It is FDA 510k approved

Cons: Contains glycerine

Gun Oil H2O Water Based Lube

Great Lube With Additional Health Benefits

gun oil h2o water based lube
This lube for Fleshlights contains four extracts. The extracts of Aloe Vera and Oat will help to minimize and repair irritation and the extracts of Ginseng and Guarana help to improve blood flow. It gives you a lighter, wetter feeling than silicone and delivers a super smooth glide. It is also long-lasting and unscented. It is paraben- and glycerin-free but fortified with special botanicals making it easier to clean up. With it being hypoallergenic it is safe for sensitive skin.

Pros: It is packaged and shipped in 100% plain package

Cons: Not ideal if you prefer a flavored lube