No man has ever said no to a good old fashioned handjob, unless it’s Freddy Kreuger who’s asking that is… or maybe Bruce Banner when he hasn’t had his morning coffee. Assuming the proposal isn’t coming from a fictional movie character that will turn your pecker into a thinly sliced cucumber or empty tube of Colgate though, there’s not much that beats a handjob.

But…

Even if your girl or guy has the softest of mitts (or sweats profusely), friction’s still going to cause you problems. Luckily, ToyWithMe is here to help.

In this article, we go over the best lube for handjobs!

Top Picks:

Doc Johnson TitanMen Water-Based Lube Glide
Gun Oil Personal Silicone Lubricant
Wicked Creme
Pjur Man Silicone Personal Lubricant
Astroglide X Premium Silicone Personal Lubricant
Wicked Aqua Chill Water Based Personal Lubricant
Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lubricant
ID Xtreme H2O Thick Water-Based Lubricant

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How to Choose The Best Lube for Handjobs

The amount

Let’s be honest, lube for handjobs is much like a personal lubricant. You quickly go through a bottle, and constantly ordering new ones is a pain both time-wise and money-wise. Buying a larger bottle straight away prevents you from having to come back time and time again and often saves you a few bucks in the process.

Longevity

Another way of looking at the same problem mentioned above is going for a lube that lasts a long time without needing to be reapplied. On our list, we’ve got both long-lasting lubes as well as lubes that come in larger bottles so you can pick one that’s right for you.

Allergies

Allergies can be a pain, but trust us when we say they can be even more painful when it comes to lube. Genitals are sensitive, so if you’re unsure whether or not you’re allergic to one of the ingredients in your lube, then test it before diving right in.

Lubrication

Some lubes are thicker than others and therefore provide more lubrication. If your partner happens to hit the gym a lot, or the handjob is part of angry make up sex, you might want to go for a thicker lube to keep friction at bay as much as possible.

Waterproof or not

If you ever want to take your old-fashioned fun into the shower or bath, then you need to go for a lube that’s not going to come off in the water. We’ve got plenty of oil-based and silicone-based lubes on our list that are great for just this purpose.

Extra features

There is a plethora of extra features that can come with lubes. Things like improving bedroom stamina, being able to be used for sex and anal and lubricants can even be vegan which makes them suitable for everyone that loves animals. There are very few limits, so make sure you think about it carefully!

Best Lubes for Handjobs

Here’s our list of the lubes for handjobs, in no particular order:

Doc Johnson TitanMen Water-Based Lube Glide

Water-Based Lube in a Large Bottle

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First on this list is the Doc Johnson TitanMen Water-Based Lube Glide and it’s a fantastic one to start this list off with.

This is a multipurpose lube that can be used for handjobs, but also for normal sex or even massages. It’s water-based so it’s great for use with toys and condoms too which makes it all the more dynamic.

If you’re an animal lover then keep this lube in the back of your mind while reading through the rest of this list, as it’s vegan-friendly and PETA certified to ensure no harm was done to animals as a result of creating the lubricant.

The Doc Johnson TitanMen Lube comes in a large bottle which is great for old fashioned hand sessions, and it’s dye and fragrance-free. It’s one of the less-expensive lubes on this list making it fantastic value.

Pros: Multipurpose lubricant, water-based, vegan-friendly, PETA certified, large bottle, dye & fragrance-free, great value

Cons: It’s quite a thin lube which makes it less suitable for things like anal

Gun Oil Personal Silicone Lubricant

Silicone-Based Premium Lubricant That’s Great in the Water

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Second is Gun Oil Personal Silicone Lubricant; a premium, condom-safe personal lubricant.

This lube is silicone-based to give you the best lubrication possible for handjobs and massages. It also doesn’t wash off as easily in water, so it’s great for handjobs in the bath, shower or pool.

Its formula is long-lasting and occasionally applying a little moisture is enough to reactivate it. It also contains vitamin E and aloe vera which helps to moisturize the skin and keeps hands and penis looking and feeling great.

Gun Oil Personal Lubricant is great for use with most sex toys and condoms. It’s one of the high-end varieties on this list so is a little more expensive than the previous lube.

Pros: Waterproof, long-lasting, contains vitamin E and Aloe Vera, high-end lubricant

Cons: Not suitable for use with silicone sex toys

Wicked Creme

Premium Vegan Lube That Doesn’t Go Sticky

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The Wicked Crème is next on this list and it’s a premium lubricant that’s great for handjobs.

This lubricant lasts for a very long time and you only need a small portion to get everything sliding smoothly down there. This ensures you get the most out of each drop and means even a small amount goes a long way.

It’s also fragrance-free which prevents those nasty chemical smells that often result from lube and is a great lube for masturbation. As well as this, this lubricant doesn’t go sticky. This helps to ensure that washing it off is a breeze and everything doesn’t get sticky the longer you use it.

Wicked Crème contains no animal by-products which means it’s great for vegans and isn’t tested on animals. Even though it’s on the higher end of this list price-wise, it’s a great lube that lasts a long time.

Pros: Long-lasting lubrication, very potent, fragrance-free, doesn’t go sticky, vegan-friendly

Cons: can stain certain fabrics

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Pjur Man Silicone Personal Lubricant

High-End Hydrating Lubricant That Improves Stamina

pjur man silicone personal lubricant
Next is the Pjur Man Silicone Personal Lubricant and it’s another high-end lubricant that’s great for multiple purposes.

This silicone lube provides extremely thorough lubrication and even works to improve your stamina. This is great for handjobs but also a fantastic lubricant for sex given the stamina-improving effects.

It’s safe to use with all latex condoms and most toys too. Given that the formula is long-lasting and doesn’t go sticky or tacky over time, it’s a great lube in almost any situation.

Pjur Man Silicone Lubricant leaves skin feeling soft and is easy to clean up after use. It’s in the medium-high price range, but given the long-lasting effect, it is still great value.

Pros: Strong lubrication, improves bedroom stamina, compatible with most toys and latex condoms, doesn’t go sticky or tacky, softens skin, long-lasting

Cons: Can get quite expensive if used daily

Astroglide X Premium Silicone Personal Lubricant

Silky Smooth Deluxe Lube That Can Be Used for Anything

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Astroglide X Premium Silicone Personal Lubricant is for those who want to pay more for higher quality lube.

This high-end lubricant is not only silky smooth and provides extremely long-lasting lubrication, but it’s also dynamic in use. This means you can use it for handjobs, but it’s also suitable for sex or other bedroom games.

It’s water-resistant which means it’s the perfect lube for use in the shower or bath, and great for jacuzzi or sauna sessions too. It’s also compatible with latex which ensures you can use it with your favorite condoms too.

Astroglide X Premium Personal Lubricant is odorless and non-irritating. It’s one of the more expensive lubes on this list.

Pros: Silky smooth, long-lasting, dynamic in use, water-resistant, latex compatible, odorless, non-irritating

Cons: It can stain your sheets if too much is spilled

Wicked Aqua Chill Water Based Personal Lubricant

Long-Lasting Water-Based Lubricant That Doesn’t Go Sticky

wicked aqua chill water based personal lubricant
Third to last now is the Wicked Aqua Chill Water Based Personal Lubricant; a feature-rich lube that’s great for everyone.

This water-based lube is not only extremely long-lasting but it also never goes sticky or tacky. This ensures you can enjoy the lube for a long time to come while being sure that it doesn’t make a mess in the process.

It’s also paraben-free which makes it great for people with sensitive skin and is also odorless to prevent any of those nasty chemical smells you sometimes get with other lubes.

As well as this, it’s also vegan-friendly which is kind for the planet and gives you peace of mind during use. It contains natural extracts to improve the formula and leave you and your little friend feeling healthier and happier.

The Wicked Aqua Chill Water Based Personal Lubricant is safe for all toys but is by far one of the most expensive options on this list.

Pros: long-lasting, doesn’t go sticky or tacky, paraben-free, odorless, vegan-friendly, contains natural extracts

Cons: Best left for special occasions given the price

Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lubricant

Aloe Vera-Based Lubricant in a Large Bottle

sliquid organics natural gel
Second to last is the Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lubricant which is a lube that’s packaged for handjobs.

This lube comes in a large bottle which already makes it one of the best lubes for handjobs on this list. It’s also petroleum-free and hypoallergenic making it fantastic for people with sensitive skin or allergies.

It’s an aloe vera-based gel that’s compatible with all sex toys and condoms. This not only gives it the fantastic properties of aloe vera but also gives you the versatility you need to enjoy this toy anywhere you go.

This lube is also infused with botanical extracts which help to moisturize and rejuvenate the skin. This means that not only your friend down there will benefit, but your partner’s hands will too!

Sliquid Organics Natural Gel Lubricant is extra thick which makes it great for anal or tight grips. It’s also vegan and cruelty-free which makes it even more accessible. It’s priced on the lower end of this list too making it superb value!

Pros: Large bottle, hypoallergenic, aloe vera-based, compatible with all condoms and toys, infused with botanical extracts, thick, great value

Cons: Can dry out after a while which means it needs to be reactivated or reapplied

ID Xtreme H2O Thick Water-Based Lubricant

Extra-Thick Water-Based Lube That’s Extra User-Friendly

id xtreme h2o thick water-based lubricant
Last but not least is the ID Xtreme H2O Thick Water-Based Lubricant; a water-based lube that can be used in a range of situations.

This water-based lubricant is extra thick which makes it great for not only handjobs but sex and anal too. Its long-lasting formula is great for long nights and just a small drop or two is enough to keep you going for quite some time to come.

It comes in a bottle that makes dispensing easy and this helps to make the whole experience a lot more pleasurable. If the lube does dry out, a small drop of water is enough to reactivate it and keep you going for a little while longer.

The ID Xtreme H2O Thick Water-Based Lubricant is condom and sex toy compatible and priced in the high-mid price range compared to the others on this list.

Pros: Extra thick, long-lasting, user-friendly, can be reactivated using water, condom and sex toy safe

Cons: The taste isn’t very nice so not great for oral

Conclusion

Handjobs are great when you use the right lube! Hopefully, after reading this article, you’ve been able to find a lube that’s right for you, or have got some inspiration as to what the best type might be. And remember: Have fun and stay safe!