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A strap on may not be the first item you add to your bedroom repertoire; however, it can be a real addition. But, where should you start and how can you find the best strap-on for you?

In this article, we will dive deeper into strap-ons and help you find the best one for your situation.

Top Picks:

Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit
Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness
Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum
Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On
Tantus Feeldoe – Strapless Strap-on Vibrator
King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit with Ultra Realistic Dildo
Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo
Adam & Eve Scarlet Strap-On Starter Set
Strap U Vibrating Strapless Silicone Strap-On Dildo
Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set
Packer Gear Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts with Vibe Pocket
BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos
Strap U Avalon Jock Style Strap-On Harness
Broad City Pegasus Pegging Kit

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How to Choose the Right Strap-on?

You have a lot of choice when it comes to strap-ons, but there are a few things you should consider when buying one. We will cover some of these things now before we go into the list of the best strap-ons.

Fit and model

Some strap-ons use straps, while others may be strapless. Before you purchase a strap-on, you should think about the model you are looking to get.

The model can have a big impact on comfort, and also the ease of getting it on.

Features

Some come with just the strap-on mechanism, while others come with a pocket for a vibrator or even have one built in! Also, if you don’t have a dildo, or want one included, then this is something you can look for too when trying to make a decision.

The Dildo

The main part of the strap-on experience is the dildo that’s attached to it. Are you looking for a very realistic dildo or a reliable anal dildo? There’s a lot to choose from so make sure you think about this so you can find the right one for you.
Having trouble choosing the right dildo? Check out our article on the picking the best dildo!

Size

Some are “one size fits all” while others allow for adjustments in the strap length. Most of the models on our list include the size in the listing, so this shouldn’t be too hard to check!

Not only the size of the straps themselves but also the size of the dildo is important to take into account. Picking one too large may cause an unpleasant experience while picking one too small may result in a lack of stimulation. Check out this dildo size guide if you would like to find the ideal size for you.

14 Best Strap-ons:

Now, to the list you’ve all been waiting for. Here’s a list of our top picks for the best strap-ons for you to consider:

Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Harness Kit

The Unisex Strap-on for Advanced Users

lovehoney advanced unisex strap-on harness kit
This strap on by Lovehoney will ensure you have great fun in the bedroom for quite some time to come.

This strap-on comes equipped with a dildo so you don’t have to purchase one separately and the dildo is curved to ensure better stimulation of the G-spot.

Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On fits the majority of people, (from 28 inches to 65 inches; US dress size 8-28) so the likelihood of this being a great fit for you is very high. It also includes 3 interchangeable O-rings to accommodate for most sex toy sizes.

If all of this wasn’t enough, this strap-on includes an inside pocket where you can insert a bullet vibrator to increase your own stimulation as well!

All of this and it’s still one of the cheaper models on this list! You’ll get a truly fantastic bang for your buck!

Pros: Includes a 7-inch dildo so you can get started right away, Pocket to include bullet vibrator for added stimulation, Adjustable size will fit the majority of people, Interchangeable O-rings to ensure the strap-on is compatible with a variety of toys

Spareparts Hardwear Unisex Joque Strap-On Harness

The Strap-on With 2 Vibrator Pockets

spareparts hardwear unisex joque strap-on harness
The Spareparts Hardware Unisex Joque Strop-on Harness is great for both men and women!

With an adjustable waist length between 20 and 50 inches (dress sizes 4-28), it will fit almost anyone. This strap-on also includes adjustable leg straps to improve the fit and create an even more comfortable experience.

This model has not 1, but 2 pockets for bullet vibrators. This ensures you get double the stimulation when you strap on and get to work. Its stretchy adjustable O-ring ensures the strap-on is compatible with almost all toys.

It’s made from a breathable and pleasant material and is made with durability in mind. This strap-on is on the more expensive side but you truly do get quality in return!

Pros: Great quality strap-on that’s made to last, 2 pockets for added bullet vibrators, Adjustable to fit almost all sizes, Compatible with almost all sex toys

Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum

The Corset-style Strap-on

doc johnson vac-u-lock platinum
The Doc Johnson Vac-U-Lock Platinum strap-on is different than the first two. At the back, it has corset-type ties for you to tie the strap-on up with, so it looks a lot better than a normal model.

Not only does it have the aesthetics, but it also has the comfort to go with it! This model is adjustable right up to a 50-inch waist, so you can fit in it no matter your size and it includes two O-ring sizes to enable the compatibility with the majority of sex toys.

This model is also one of the cheaper models on this list and is a great model to get as a first strap-on.

Pros: Compatible with various dildo sizes to ensure a fully customizable experience, Corset-type laces for a better-looking experience, Adjustable up to a 50-inch waist

Cons: Doesn’t offer pockets for you to put a vibrator in

Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On

The Strap-on With a Built-in Vibrator

lovehoney perfect partner unisex hollow 10 function vibrating strap-on
If you are looking for a vibrating adventure, then this may be the best strap-on for you!

The Lovehoney Perfect Partner Unisex Hollow 10 Function Vibrating Strap-On truly is the perfect partner! It boasts an added vibration option to an already fantastic sex toy.

This model offers 3 different vibrating speeds and a whopping 7 different vibration settings! You will never get bored again with all these options! The controller is wired so either of you can control the vibration settings.

The elastic waistband offers a space for the controller to be stashed away and the textured 8-inch dildo will satisfy you any day.

This strap-on is also one of the cheaper models on this list and is superb value for money, looking at the features it offers.

Pros: 8-inch textured dildo to provide maximum stimulation, Vibrating dildo with 3 speeds and 7 vibration settings so you never get bored in the bedroom again

Cons: Not compatible with a lot of other dildo models

Tantus Feeldoe – Strapless Strap-on Vibrator

The Strapless Strap-on for a Stronger You

tantus feeldoe strapless strap-on vibrator
If you are tired of feeling left out when using your strap-on to pleasure your partner, then this model is for you!

This is one of the best strapless strap-ons on the market and not only will you both feel some stimulation, but you can also train your pc-muscles in the process!

This model may take some more time getting used to but when you get the hang of it you can be sure you’ll have a great experience!

This strapless strap-on is made of hypoallergenic and 100% dishwasher-safe material. The shaft comes up at a natural angle to improve the sensation and even comes with a waterproof, removable bullet vibrator!

The Tantus Feeldoe is priced at the higher end of the spectrum but truly does provide a unique experience.

Pros: Trains your pc-muscles while you use it, Provides a strapless experience so no more fussing with getting the strap-on on, Comes with a bullet vibrator to improve the sensation it provides, Hypoallergenic and easy to clean

Cons: A little more expensive than some of the other models on the list

King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit with Ultra Realistic Dildo

The Realistic King of Strap-ons

king cock strap-on harness kit with ultra realistic dildo
This strap-on dildo is just as realistic as it is pleasurable. The King Cock Strap-On Harness Kit with Ultra Realistic Dildo truly is a force to be reckoned with.

This strap-on boasts a dildo length of humongous 9 inches and is not for amateurs. The strap-on itself is adjustable between 25 and 52 inches so it fits a large number of users and the suggested dress size is 6 to 30.

This model comes with a whole host of features and extras and can also fit other dildos, so you aren’t just stuck with the large model either. The dildo also comes with a suction cup for hands-free use.

This model is priced in the mid-high price range but as it includes a separate dildo, is still priced very reasonably if you ask us!

Pros: Suction cup for hands-free use, Lots of extra features included within the price, Large, realistic and highly stimulating dildo included so you don’t have to buy one separately

Cons: This model doesn’t have the possibility to add vibrators easily while using the strap-on

Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo

The Double Pleasing Strapless Strap-on

lovehoney double wow strapless strap-on dildo
Another one of the strapless strap-on dildos on this list, this model is even more stimulating than the last strapless one!

The Lovehoney Double Wow Strapless Strap-On Dildo includes an ultra-realistic shaft and a textured base to ensure stimulation on both ends.

This dildo is a great addition to your bedroom toys collection if you like to share the pleasure together with your partner.

This model is priced at the cheaper end of the scale and is definitely a contender for one of the best strapless strap-on dildos!

Pros: Strapless strap-on so no fussing and fiddling with the straps, Extremely realistic feel for a better experience, Stimulating on both ends so a great experience to share with your partner

Cons: No vibration and no easy way to incorporate this into the experience

Adam & Eve Scarlet Strap-On Starter Set

Great Strap-on for Beginners

adam eve scarlet strap-on starter set
This starter set is great for strap-on beginners!

The Adam & Eve Scarlet Strap-On Starter Set has everything in it for you to start your strap-on adventures. It’s made from soft and comfortable material and comes in two sizes.

This strap-on comes with two dildos so you can switch things up whenever you feel like some variation. There’s one smaller black dildo and one larger red one.

This strap-on has one huge benefit and that is that you don’t have to mess around with the straps or awkward moments when trying it out. Just slip it on like some lingerie and you’re all set!

This strap-on is in the mid-high price range but does boast some major advantages to some of the other models on this list.

Pros: Lingerie model so no awkward moments trying to get a strap-on on the right way, Comes with 2 dildos for more variation, Extremely comfortable material, Great for first-timers

Cons: Doesn’t offer vibration options and may not be ideal if you are already an experienced strap-on user

Strap U Vibrating Strapless Silicone Strap-On Dildo

The Vibrating Strapless Experience

strap u vibrating strapless silicone strap-on dildo
This model truly is the best of both worlds. The Strap U Vibrating Strapless Silicone Strap-On Dildo is one of the most feature-rich models around.

This is definitely one of the best strapless strap-on dildos you can find and mixes both the pleasure and ease of a strapless strap-on, with the stimulation of a vibrating model.

The vibrations are felt, not only by the receiving person but also by the one who is wearing the strapless strap-on. This ensures great stimulation for both parties and a wonderful united experience.

This strap-on is made of premium quality silicone and is one of the most stimulating models on this list for both you and your partner. This model is priced at the lower end of the scale and certainly is a great option if you’re looking to spice things up with your partner.

Pros: Vibrating model for added stimulation, Strapless so no more messing around with putting it on and fiddling about, Made from high-quality silicone

Cons: Maybe a little harder to use than some of the other models on this list

Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Double Dildo Set

The Double-ended Strap-on for Shared Pleasure

fetish fantasy double delight strap-on double dildo set
If that last one looked like a great option to ensure shared pleasure, then make sure you take a look at this one!

This double ended strap-on guarantees pleasure for both you and your partner as it offers 2-sided pleasure! The Fetish Fantasy Double Delight Strap-On Dildo Set boasts a 6-inch insertable length and a 4.75-inch girth, for great pleasure to both parties!

The curved and textured shape of these dildos is great for stimulating the most pleasurable places and the free blindfold will make the sex even more exciting!

This dildo is priced in the mid-range of this list and is one of the best double-sided dildos around.

Pros: Double sided for maximum pleasure for both you and your partner, 6-inch length and 4.75-inch girth on both sides for added pleasure, Textured and curved shape to be even more stimulating

Cons: Doesn’t offer vibration-features like some of the other dildos on this list

Packer Gear Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts with Vibe Pocket

The Strap-on Based on Comfort of Use

packer gear strap-on harness boxer shorts with vibe pocket
This comfortable and easy to use strap-on is a great model for people who want a well-functioning and comfortable strap-on without having to deal with the headaches of getting it on.

The Packer Gear Strap-On Harness Boxer Shorts with Vibe Pocket is fantastic and offer quite some features for a simple model. Not only is it easy to wear and comfortable, but it also boasts a vibrator pocket for easy use along with a vibrator.

Not only will the vibrator improve the experience, but the double panel inside enables this strap-on to be used with double-sided models too!

This model is one of the cheaper models and is great if you are looking for a quick-buy strap-on.

Pros: Compatible with not only most normal dildos but also double-sided models, Extremely comfortable and easy to put on, Includes a vibrator pocket for extra stimulation

Cons: Doesn’t come with dildo included so you have to buy one separate

BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit with 2 Dildos

The 2-dildo Basic Strap-on Set

basics strap-on harness kit with 2 dildos
This beginner strap-on set is ideal if it’s your first time trying out a strap-on. This model comes with everything you will need for your first strap-on experience.

The BASICS Strap-On Harness Kit includes 2 dildos, both having a raised and bumpy texture for added stimulation. The two dildos measure 6-inches and 8-inches, so there is a size for everyone.

With adjustable O-ring sizes and an adjustable harness, this strap-on starter set is suitable for almost anyone and compatible with almost any dildo.

This strap-on set is priced in the mid-range and is great for any beginner looking to experience what it’s like to have a true strap-on adventure.

Pros: Great for starters, includes everything you will need; Adjustable O-ring and strap sizes to fit almost everyone; Includes 2 dildos, both 6 and 8-inches long, which are textured and highly stimulating

Cons: Doesn’t come with the option to add a vibrator like some of the other models do

Strap U Avalon Jock Style Strap-On Harness

The Jock-strap Style Strap-on

strap u avalon jock style strap-on harness
If you are looking for a strap-on that will fit almost any wide-based dildo, then this is the model for you!

The Strap U Avalon Jock Style Strap-On Harness was created with comfort in mind. This great fitting strap-on can be used in conjunction with almost all wide-based dildos and feels great when you are wearing it.

This model is priced at the lower end when compared to other models on this list. It doesn’t come with a dildo but is a great strap-on to consider if you are just looking for the Strap-On itself.

Pros: Fits almost any wide-based dildo; Feels great to wear, so no more discomfort when using a strap-on; Priced at the lower end compared to the other models on the list

Cons: Doesn’t come with a dildo or as many features as some of the other options on this list

Broad City Pegasus Pegging Kit

The Pegging Kit With a Complete List of Features

broad city pegasus pegging kit
If you’re looking for a model with all the features and extras, then this is the strap-on for you.

The Broad City Pegasus Pegging Kit includes everything you will need for ultimate stimulation and a banging experience. We’ve definitely saved the best for last.

This kit includes not only the strap-on but also a silicone dildo and bullet vibrator. Both the dildo and bullet-vibe can be used without the strap-on if you want some solo fun.

The O-ring ensures you can switch dildos from time to time, and the comfortable brief-like model ensures you can enjoy your evening in comfort.

This model is priced a little higher than some of the other items on the list, but you do get a lot back for it.

Pros: Dildo and bullet vibrator included so you can get started straight away and can have maximum pleasure in the process; Comfortable brief-model makes the whole experience a lot more comfortable; O-ring, so you can switch out dildos as you please

Cons: Not one of the cheapest models on this list

FAQ’s

What are some tips when using a strap-on?

Get used to the toy
This is especially true for strapless models, but also for models with straps. Get used to the feel of the toy and the motion in which you will be using it before embarking on your experience. This will make it a lot more pleasurable.

Don’t forget to use lube
Lubrication will make the whole experience a lot easier and a lot more fun. Don’t forget to use lube when trying out your new strap-on.

If it’s your first time using a strap-on, check out this article on your first strap-on.

Can I use all dildos on all strap-ons?

No, this depends on the model. As you can see in our list, some strap-ons are adjustable to fit most models, while others just focus on their own model of a dildo. Make sure to check this before you buy!

Can I use a strap-on, even if I’m a man?

Of course you can. Even though they were created with lesbian sex in mind, there’s nothing stopping you from trying it out! If it fits, give it a shot!

As you can see, strap-ons are a much more complex topic than you would think. However, we hope you now have enough information to make an educated decision about which strap-on you should go for and how to find the best strap-on for you!