Today we’re going to reviews the smartest, the most feature-rich and the most luxurious butt plug. The one that rises above all anal plugs. The one to rule them all. Meet Lovense Hush. Yeah, there are other plugs that can rival Hush in terms of design, power and overall quality but none of them have such a quality app and long-distance potential. Without further ado, let’s dive into the review of this amazing toy. Check Lovense Hush Package First of all, Hush was provided for free by generous guys in Lovense. Once again, this fact doesn’t influence the review but just so you know. The package I received was, as you’d expect, absolutely discreet. It included the toy itself, charging cable and user manual with setup guide. So it’s quite standard and minimalistic. There are no storage pouches or any other accessories. This can be a bit of a disappointment but hey, the package includes the best anal plug currently available. What else do you need? Design and Features I personally love the design of this butt plug. It looks stylish and actually ergonomic. The main features design-wise worth talking about include the flexible neck with spirals on it and the base design itself. The spirals are meant to prevent the lube from running out of your bootie so the removal process is easier after you finish. The flexible neck also adds to the overall usability and makes sure the toy stays inside. And the base is designed in the way that it’s extremely comfortable to hold the toy during the removal process. And of course, it prevents any unwanted travels of the toy inside of your beautiful inner world. The toy is 100% made of medical-grade silicone, is waterproof and uses a rechargeable battery. It takes about an hour and a half to fully charge the toy and it should be enough for 2 hours of play, which is definitely more than four uses for me per charge. Hush comes in two sizes. They are the same in all dimensions except diameter. 3.80 inches of insertable length (with 4.76 inches of total length) should be enough for any butt plug lover. Actually, it’s even longer than the majority of butt plugs. Base length is 3.15 inches and the neck width is 0.75 inches. Most likely you don’t really care about these dimensions and only care about the diameter. Just like me. The two diameters available are 1.5 and 1.75 inches. Before sending the toy, Lovense kindly asked what size do I prefer. I thought that I’m not a faint-hearted so of course I’ve asked for a 1.75 version. Turns out, I am faint-hearted as this thing looks frightening to such an anal novice as me. I own some small anal toys including a prostate massager, small butt plug and anal vibrator and I didn’t have any problems inserting the toys until I’ve got 1.75-inch Lovense Hush. But more on this later. App If you’ve read some of my previous reviews, namely about Lovense Max 2, then you already know that I’m an absolute fan of their control app. There is simply nothing to compare on the market. Not even close. Oh, there is OhMiBod Remote app I’ve tried several years ago which wasn’t that bad but still far from Lovense Remote. I’m going to discuss all the options offered by the app in the next section but just so you have some insights before reading the next section, in Lovense app you can use predefines patterns, patterns created by other users, control the app live, use voice to control the toy, let the toy react to the music, and of course let you partner to control the app by using the long-distance mode. Now that we’ve covered all the basic things you should know about Lovense Hush, let’s dive into real-life test results! My Experience First of all, as with any sex toy with a rechargeable battery, you need to fully charge it before the first use. So I did with Hush. The toy had some juice in it so it didn’t take an hour and a half before the toy was fully charged. While charging, there is a light indicator on the bottom of the toy which is, at the same time, the button you use to control the toy. The light is really dim due to its location beneath black silicone so you may have to peer to figure out if it’s charging. After the toy was fully charged it was time for some testing. Tu turn it on, you need to hold the button at the bottom for three seconds (the same for turning the toy off). The blinking red light identifies that the toy is on, but it will also vibrate once so you’re sure it’s on. If you can’t use the app, or don’t want to, you can control the toy by this button. I’ve counted seven different modes you can use without the app, which already is enough for the majority of anal play lovers. But the toy truly begins to shine when used with the Lovense Remote app. The connecting process is a piece of cake so you shouldn’t have any problems with that. There are some predefined patterns like pulse, wave, fireworks and earthquake. Though they are all good, it’s way more fun to either create your own or control the app in real-time. Lovense Remote app works similarly for all Lovense products so it will be a pain to review all the features every time. Also, you can check some videos below so you’ve got a general idea. The only feature I want to discuss in this review is a remote control. The reason for that is because a) I’m currently in a long-distance relationship and b) it’s one of the two Lovense toys you can discretely use in public (or relatively discretely). In order to get this mode working, your partner also needs to download and register in …

Lelo’s F1s is probably the most anticipated male sex toy of the last years. Lelo is known for producing some of the best luxury sex toys on the market and while the lunch of F1s Prototype was delayed by almost six months, it’s finally here and you can get your hands on. Note, I’m reviewing F1s Developers Kit Red which is essentially the same but goes with an SDK that allows programming the toy. The toy was provided by Lelo free of charge so big thanks to them. So, does F1s live to its hype? Let’s find out. What is it Probably the main selling point of the toy is that it uses SenSonic technology which “made LELO SONA the world’s bestselling sex toy of all time”. It’s actually a bit difficult to describe this technology without quoting LELO. SenSonic means that “one of the motors emits powerful sonic waves that permeate deep into your penis, making it feel as though it’s resonating pleasurably from all directions all at once, instead of simply tickling the nerve endings on the surface of your skin”. In short, vibrations penetrate your D, all right? F1 is marketed as a masturbator and considering that masturbation just means making yourself ejaculate, this is technically true. But we all got used that masturbators are the toys you can actually thrust and penetrate or something that actually strokes the penis. Keep in mind that F1s isn’t that kind of a toy. Basically, it’s a high-end vibrating penis sleeve. Check Lelo F1s Package When I received a package, I actually thought it was a mistake. The box weighted almost nothing. Considering my previous experience with masturbators, they all weight at list one pound but not in this case. Inside the box you will find: The actual F1s toy Toy cleaning spray. Really very nice of Lelo to include it. Don’t Disturb sign. Never going to use it but still nice. Gloves. Look like you can even wear them to the gym. Not the best quality honestly but enough for the task. No one before Lelo have thought of that. Great for sloppy guys. Starter Guide. USB Charger. Obviously. Satin storage pouch. Very very very nice pouch. I love it! Warranty Registration Card. Detailed Instruction Manual. A lot of users complain about the lack of technical documentation so maybe not really that “detailed”. Two Lelo lube samples. Thank you, Lelo (do you hear me, Lovense?). So far, it’s the best package I’ve ever received. Lelo really tried to think of everything you may need to accompany the toy. As you can see, the entrance isn’t actually round but elliptic. It’s an obvious choice as the penis is also kind of elliptic. On the back of the toy, there are three buttons: Power button and two buttons to regulate the intensity. There is also a charging port (which is sealed on the photo). Features I can’t say that F1s is “packed” with features but it sure allows for a lot of customization. First of all, F1s is extremely portable. As you can see from the image below, it’s smaller than Tenga Flip Zero EV and way smaller than Lovense Max 2. There are two motors. The one that stimulates the head is considered the “main” one, and the other is placed near the entrance and is responsible for vibrations. Both motors have 15 intensity settings so this brings tons of variations you can try. The manual interface doesn’t allow for separate control of the motors so you’ll need to use an app for that. The sleeve is made of body-safe silicone but I honestly find it rough. It could be more stretchy and “gentle” so to say. Also, there are a ton of sensors all around the toy that measure vibration, temperature, pressure and whatnot. It’s really nice of Lelo to try to push boundaries with all this data but for me it was useless. Maybe those who want to develop custom apps for F1s will find it more usable. F1s is fully waterproof and rechargeable. I don’t actually remember how long did it take me to fully charge the toy for the first time (though it already had some juice in it on arrival) but I’m sure it wasn’t too long. Also, F1s delivers 2 hours of action on one charge, which is really nice. There is also a see-through window so you can see the toy working. These are pretty much all the features, let’s get to testing. My Experience Starting the F1s has a few things to remember. If you want to use the toy manually – just press the power button for 2-3 seconds and the toy will start. Now it’s possible to control both motors simultaneously by using “plus” and “minus” buttons. But, if you want to use the toy with the app, you first need to start the app and only then the toy. Also, in this case, you don’t press and hold, but rather quickly press the button once to connect and then once more to confirm the connection. The first time I used the toy I didn’t have any connection issues but they started during the following uses. The issue was that after pressing the button for the second time (to confirm the connection) the toy would start running on the manual mode. Sometimes I had to turn off the F1s and close the app several times to successfully sync them. Sure, it may be my fault but I suppose the toy should be a bit more idiot-proof for people like me. I synced F1s with an app and it was time to enter the toy. First, I want to note that I’m not considered a “big” guy (5.6” in circumference and 6.3 in length) but even so, I found entering the toy a pain (figuratively but sometimes literally). I did lube both, the toy and the penis, if you’re curious about that. I thought that maybe I used not enough …

To start with, I want to say that initially, after a few days of testing, I was a bit disappointed with the toy and planned on giving it 6-7 out of 10. What a fool I was. Now I can claim that it’s at least a solid 9. Read on to find out why I changed my mind (hint: mostly because I’m stupid). Max 2 is an upgraded version of the original Max (duh) which was released in 2013 so Lovense took their time to refine the toy. I don’t own an old Max so I can’t compare the two, but from what I understand the main differences are: bigger orifice, better battery life, better vibrator and 360° contractions. Max 2 isn’t considered a hands-free device but actually it’s possible (at least for sensitive me) to climax without stroking the toy manually thanks to vibrations coupled with contractions. So without further ado let’s snap into action. Check Max 2 Package Max 2 was sent to me be lovely folks at Lovense but be sure that it’s an absolutely honest review (like all of my reviews) and I tried my best to find all possible flaws (and I did!). The toy arrived in a discrete package, as you’d expect with all adult toys. The first thing you notice is that the package is quite big. Not big like the one of Fleshlight Launch but way bigger than Tenga Flip Zero EV. The toy itself, as you could guess, isn’t small or discrete either. It’s quite a hefty device actually. The package also includes a magnetic charger (nice!), a short setup guide and a user manual. That’s about it. Not even a sample lube. Why Lovense, why? Considering that they sell their own lube. The toy itself looks VERY nice. The design is simple, clean and very stylish. I bet no one would guess that it’s actually a masturbator. Maybe a thermos? Actually, it’s even possible to store some tea there (no idea who would actually do it though). Max 2 comes with a clear sleeve with a neutral orifice (another difference compared to original Max) which is a huge plus for guys who are not fond of a pussy. You can also buy a pink sleeve with a vagina orifice separately if you wish. On the back of a toy, you can see an air vent to control the suction, quick air release button (to release the contractions), air pump vent (must be open during the use and closed during cleaning) and a charging port. Do you see what I see? There are also two buttons on the toy’s body. One responsible for vibrations, and the other for contractions. Features Max 2 is loaded with cool features. First, it offers seven vibration patterns (Low, Medium, High, Pulse, Wave, Fireworks and Earthquake). This is accompanied by three contractions settings: Subtle, Mild and Deep. This already gives you 21 possible combinations which is nice but Lovense Remote App brings variation to another level as you can download patterns from other users or create your own. The possibilities are endless. It takes 100 minutes to fully charge Max 2 and it provides up to 3 hours of work which is great if you ask me. Also, I like the charger being magnetic. Besides, Max 2 can be paired with Lovense Nora vibrator (or another Max/Max 2) which makes it a must-try toy for teledildonics lovers. If to consider suction power control a feature, it’s there but I don’t like it too much. More on this later. Lovense also developed a VR game called Mirror Life specifically for Max 2. While it’s not something groundbreaking, Lovense definitely deserves praise for an effort. Unfortunately, you need a Lovense Bluetooth dongle in order to connect it to PC and it doesn’t work with other BT adapters. Considering the low price of the dongle (often $5), it would be nice if Lovense included it with the toy. My Experience As recommended, I fully charged Max 2 before the first use. The battery was pre-charged on the arrival so I didn’t have to wait 100 minutes. Preparing Max 2 for the use is a piece of cake, but there are a few things to keep in mind. First, the sleeve has a sort of a groove that is meant to match the bullet inside so make sure you insert the sleeve correctly. Second, make sure the air pump vent is open. Other than that, there is nothing to worry about. Just lube it and go. The first thing you’ll notice is that the entrance is very tight. Probably it was done to maintain the suction but it’s too much for my taste. I must say that I’m 5.7 in circumference, and it’s not just me as other reviewers also found the entrance to be too tight. While the entrance is tight, the sleeve inside actually feels very loose. It’s loose to the point that it’s difficult to climax without using the vibration. Regarding the sleeve quality, it’s ok but I’d rank it lower than fleshlight and the one in Tenga Flip Zero. But honestly, for the price, it’s more than decent. I turned the Max 2 on and cycled through all the vibration patterns. Actually, I was surprised that just one bullet was able to deliver more than worthy level of vibration. Also, you can feel vibrations through all the length and without knowing, I wouldn’t be able to say where the bullet is located and that there is only one. Vibration patterns are all good but nothing extraordinary. As usually, I prefer constant steady vibrations (Low and Medium in this case). But, Lovense Remote app opens new boundaries here. You can create your own patterns or download the ones created by other users. I downloaded the one called “Milf Hunter” (it seems to be the most popular) and I must confess that it was the experience of a lifetime (it also included a pattern for contractions). Contractions. …

If you follow our blog, you may already know that I’m a huge Bathmate fun. If not, check my Bathmate review. I’ve been pumping for about 18 months now and while Bathmate sessions are relatively short (15 minutes), it still gets boring sometimes. That’s why Bathmate developed HydroVibe – to make pumping sessions more fun. While there are other benefits you can expect from this product like “release of serotonin and anti-pain chemicals like encephalin” and blah blah, the main idea behind HydroVibe is just to make your sessions more fun and pleasurable. So the question is: does it live to its promises? Let’s figure this out. What is it? Basically, HydroVibe consists of a silicone ring and two bullet vibrators. The idea behind it is to pass the vibration through the water in your pump thus making your penis “feel good”. As HydroVibe adds kind of a “massage” effect to the session and helps to keep an erection inside the pump, in theory, you can expect better results. Each vibe has 10 vibration patterns which results in 100 variations but honestly, I find it annoying when the vibes aren’t synced. HydroVibe can work up to 1 hour on a 2-hour charge and is compatible with all Bathmate pumps except for HydroXtreme11. And it’s obviously waterproof. Package Hydrovibe came in a nice package which includes: a silicone ring, two vibes, two charging cables and a pouch. There isn’t much to say about the package as everything feels good quality. I especially love the pouch. Some people comment that vibrators feel cheap, but I can’t agree on that. Yes, they have a plastic casing, but it feels solid and sturdy. I even dropped them several times in the shower and there is no visible damage. How to Use Bathmate HydroVibe arrives pre-charged but you can fully charge bullets before the first use just in case. In order to do so, you need to unscrew the top caps and plug the two bullets into USB ports. While charging doesn’t take too much time, it still occupies two USB slots instead of one so it may be a concern if you’re limited on those. Before the first use, you also need to remove plastic spacers (you’ll notice them after unscrewing the caps), as the bullets will not work properly with them (and you won’t be able to properly seal the bullets). These spacers prevent HydroVibe from starting unexpectedly while in the package. Now you are pretty much ready to start. Put the silicone ring on the Bathmate Pump, insert bullets on the sides and start the show. Each bullet has one button which lets you turn on and off the device and to change the vibration pattern. So when you are ready, just hold the button for a few seconds and the bullet will start on the first pattern. To cycle through different patterns just click the button. To turn off the vibe, hold the button for 2-3 seconds. My experience I must say that I took a while to test HydroVibe on different settings and different days of the pumping routine. Also, note that I’ve tested it in the shower so the experience in the bathtub may be different. The first time I used HydroVibe, I was going for my traditional routine. At this point I do two sets, the first one is short (5 minutes) to just sort of warm-up, and the second one is longer (10 minutes) on maximum pressure I can achieve. And with HydroExtreme the pressure is very high. During the first set, I wasn’t pumping to the max and the HydroVibe actually felt pretty good. You can feel the vibes through the water and it’s really a pleasurable feeling. I had some problems with controlling the vibes though. It’s difficult to control them at the same time and if you accidentally put them on different vibration patterns, it may be difficult to sync them again so I usually had to turn them off and on again. Now it was time for Act 2. I pumped to the max with the handball pump and started the vibes. And this time the feelings weren’t that pleasurable. First of all, when you pump with the handball pump, you reach the highest levels of possible pressure and there is almost no water left in the pump (at least in my case) and without water, vibrations are just transmitted through the plastic of the pump. In addition, these vibrations make your penis feel numb and decrease the sensitivity. And when pumping to the maximum, I want to be able to feel the slightest discomfort and it happens quite often that I have to release the pump a bit before 10 minutes mark. With these vibes, I just can’t tell if anything is wrong or if I feel any pain. Sure, if the things get critical, I’d probably know, but I’m a bit of a control freak and this is a con for me. As you may have guessed, the first experience wasn’t the best. I’ve tried to use HydroVibe on the maximum pressure several times and the result was always the same. Then I decided to remove the handball pump and do it the “old-fashion” way, like with a HydroMax. In this case, I wasn’t able to pump to my usual numbers and there was a lot of water left inside the pump, and in this case, the vibrations actually feel really nice. So it’s probably good for the majority of users but in my case, I don’t feel any pleasure when pumping to the maximum with HydroExtreme. Also, obviously it adds vibration to the water around you when in the bathtub so I wonder how it feels. Maybe it changes the experience entirely but I don’t have a bathtub so I can’t tell. Verdict Bathmate HydroVibe is definitely an interesting product and can make the sessions more fun for the majority of users. But if you’re using a handball pump …

This review is likely to be short, as the amount of time I’m able to last inside the Tenga FLIP ZERO EV because this toy is freaking amazing! So, the toy is the successor of the original Flip Zero and the main innovation (as you could have already guessed) is the vibration. Honestly, I have never owned the original Flip Zero so it’s difficult for me to compare these two, but more experienced folks say that besides vibration, new Flip Zero was improved in a number of ways, like packaging, texture and suction power. Although EV isn’t fully hands-free masturbator like, for example, Fleshlight Launch, it delivers an amazing sensation and actually the vibration alone can bring you pretty close to the climax (or maybe even to the finish line for some folks). Packaging And Design The package itself looks good and feels like the one used for high-end tech (which EV actually is). Inside you’ll find the actual toy in a nice plastic casing, charging cable, manual, warranty and two samples of Tenga lube. The toy doesn’t actually look like a sex toy and personally, I think it’s way more discreet than Fleshlight. When you start to read the manual and get yourself familiar with the toy you actually come to the realization that it’s a spacecraft in the world of male masturbators. Personally, I was just amazed about the amount of small (and not so small) details Tenga engineers took into consideration. The EV arrives in a clear case standing on the charging base. The case feels really sturdy and is very practical as besides keeping the toy secure it prevents any dust getting on the toy. The charging base is quite unique. You don’t plug the actual toy, like with almost all other toys, but the base charges the toy through special contacts that look like a silver strip. Also charging works even if you put the toy upside down. Actually, you don’t even need to put the entire toy on the charging base. The battery is located in the detachable arm. If you’re familiar with the original Flip Zero, it has the same arm which you need to detach to open the toy, but now it actually includes the battery. Probably the multifunctionality of the arm amazes me the most. As I didn’t own the original Flip Zero, the ways the arm can be used to dry the toy was an eye opener for me as well…like…how do you even come up with such brilliant ideas? Also, while EV has motors and the arm houses a battery, the toy is completely waterproof (except the charging base of course). Now to the “insides”. To open the toy, you need to remove the arm, press the joint a bit and pull it apart. The texture is interesting but as other reviewers are stating a bit simpler than the original Flip Zero due to the need to place two motors (duh). Two motors are smartly placed in both ends on different sides so that the vibration distribution is equal through the toy. The inside material is TPE and feels quite different from Fleshlight, but is soft and nice. EV offers five different vibration patterns: Low, High, Pulse, Alternating and Random. Low and High are just simple vibrations and only different in intensity. Pulse is…well…pulsing, you know. Alternating means randomly switching between two motors and Random cycles the previous modes randomly. More on vibration modes a bit later. On the 90-minutes charge, Tenga Flip Zero EV will provide you 40 minutes of play, which is actually a good deal compared to Fleshlight Launch (6-8 charging time for 2 hours of play). Preparation and Usage Preparation is very easy but still a bit more complicated than with the Fleshlight (are you already sick of me comparing Tenga to Fleshlight?). You need to open the toy and lube the inner sleeve well. Tenga suggests using about 10ml of lube which is actually more than I usually use with Fleshlight so I’d say it’s a “lube-hungry” toy. If you got used to warming your masturbators, it’s not something you can expect with Tenga as it’s forbidden to use hot water on the sleeve material. Still, it’s said that you can use warm water, but it’s a mystery warm to what extent, so I’m not risking my toy for that. So, I lubed my Tenga well and started experimenting with the toy. First, the sleeve feels nice and soft. I’d say it’s softer than the one in the Fleshlight and feels different. It’s a tough call to say whose sleeve feels better. I’d say that I love some of my Fleshlight sleeves a bit more than the Tenga sleeve. But still, it’s really close. Don’t make me do such a difficult choice! Because of two motors, you could expect that they would “steal” the “useful” area inside the toy but in reality, they don’t cause any inconveniences and the toy feels just like a normal sleeve. Right from the start, I decided to try if vibrations alone can do the job so I just relaxed and started cycling through different vibration patterns. They all feel nice but personally, I enjoyed the Low and Pulse the most. They feel consistent and were able to bring me very close to climax. After enjoying the vibrations for some time, I decided to add manual movements and…it was an embarrassment. Two or three jerking moves were enough. I was caught by surprise as I clearly wasn’t expecting that. This battle was totally lost but we had a war ahead. When the vibration is on you can’t really feel the sleeve that well so the next time I decided to test the Tenga EV in a “manual mode”. So, as I mentioned before, the sleeve feels soft and nice but the thing that makes it amazing (at least for me) is the suction power. It feels like a professional swimmer is trying to suck all your juices through …

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Sex is exciting, and the climax point of sex is nothing but breathtaking. Cumming is top tier, and we doubt there is an experience that comes close. An orgasm is the main destination of sex, and the bad news is not all people reach it. In this article, we will be talking about why you can’t cum during sex or masturbation, and we are going to help you cum more than twice. If you want to experience the sex peak, then you need to read this article. Failing to Cum Failing to cum is a medical condition that is mainly referred to as delayed ejaculation, some scholars refer to it as impaired ejaculation. The condition results in males and females failing to reach sexual climax after sexual stimulation. It can be quite a big problem, especially for married couples. Now that we know what it is, let us get to the nitty-gritty of the condition and help you deal with it. Is It Normal Not to Cum? Well, if you are struggling to cum during sex, the biggest question you might have might be whether it is normal to be experiencing delayed or impaired ejaculation. The question is a bit complicated. The first part you have to understand is that it is completely normal to fail to cum in the course of your life. If the problem persists, though, it becomes abnormal. If you experience delayed ejaculation once in a couple of years, then it is not a big problem. If it becomes a regular occurrence, then you have a problem, and you have to try and get it fixed. If you do not fix it, it might end up affecting your sex life and eventually your mental well-being. It is quite a big issue, and the next question you will be asking is what causes it. We have the answer. Why Can’t I Cum There are several reasons why some people fail to cum. The range of reasons that cause people not to cum is quite extensive, and they differ from gender to gender. We will be looking at the cause of delayed ejaculation or delayed orgasm on both women and men to see how best they can be solved. Why Can’t I Cum: Women The issue of failing to cum mostly affects women, and if there is an area that women complain mostly about, it is this area. The biggest blame, though, is usually cast on the partner. Most women tend to think that if they can’t cum, then it’s their partner that is failing to make them cum. That is rarely the case, though, and we will be telling you the main reason why the sex peaks aren’t coming your way. Mental Health Conditions Sex is as much mental as it is physical. If your mental health is not in the right condition, orgasms might be one thing you will never get. People who are suffering from depression and sexual anxiety tend to struggle with climaxing. The worst part is they might not even know it’s their fault. Shyness and low self-esteem all fall in this category, and the effects on the body’s orgasms mechanism are quite intense. The worst part about failing to orgasm due to faltering mental health is that the burden of failing to orgasm can make your problem worse. It might also answer a quite common question, “Why can’t I cum in the morning?” The reason might be because you are not mentally ready to have sex yet. How to Fix It Mental health issues are serious illnesses, and they require clinical treatment. There is a need to visit a doctor. Depending on the level of your mental health issue, you can be ordered to go for counseling or get medication. Whatever the treatment that is prescribed to you, once you are back to full health, your orgasming days will be back. Inadequate Stimulation Sometimes the reason why you are not orgasming might be a lack of stimulation. If you do not receive enough stimulation during sex, chances are an orgasm is not coming your way. Sexual climax or cumming is a result of the stimulation. When stimulation is at its peak, you will cum. If the main reason for your failure to peak during sex is lack of stimulation, there are hundreds of ways to fix it. We will give you a rundown. How to Fix It Stimulation is pretty easy. The good thing about sex is you know exactly what turns you on. Try to do just that, and if you have a partner, be sure to communicate with them and tell them exactly what you want. If that does not work, try to be a little adventurous. There are dozens of sex toys out there. Find one that does the deeds for you, and we can guarantee that you will cum. It is also important to watch a bit of porn. Porn is the ultimate stimulation tool, and you will definitely cum more. Aging Well, yes, the main cause of orgasmic dysfunction in women is usually aging. As you grow older, chances are you are going to struggle to reach the peak of sexual pleasure. It can be attributed to hormonal imbalances that come with age. The sad part about this, though, is that you cannot be certain when age starts to affect your ability to orgasm; it differs from one person to the next. The good thing is that if it’s an age that is restricting you from cumming, it can be fixed, and we know just how. How to Fix it There are several treatment options for orgasmic dysfunction due to old age. Estrogen hormone therapy is the best treatment for orgasmic dysfunction as a result of old age. The good news is the therapy has proven to be quite effective. Hormone therapy will raise sexual interest and ensure that your genitals are more sensitive. If you feel a little old and rusty, it is the solution […]

Sex dolls are all the rage. With new high-tech features being invented to make them more realistic and make them more customizable, there’s no better time to buy a sex doll. However, if you’ve made your way to this page, you’ve probably already ordered or have even received your sex doll and are wondering how to keep your sex doll clean and maintain it. Luckily for you, ToyWithMe has your back! We’ve created this blog post to provide you with all the information you need about cleaning your sex doll, ensuring you can keep your doll in optimal condition and use it for a long time to come. General cleaning Obviously, the most important part of cleaning your sex doll is cleaning the intimate areas. However, the rest of your doll requires some attention too. Although it might not require as regular cleaning, it’s still an important part of sex doll maintenance. Below are a few things you should do regularly, as well as some tips on how to keep your sex doll clean. Wipe it down Wiping your sex doll down with a sex toy wipe after every use is the best way to ensure optimal hygiene. If you don’t have any wipes created specifically for cleaning toys, you can use warm water with a gentle soap. Even if certain parts of the sex doll haven’t come into contact with any intimate areas, it’s still a good idea to clean them regularly as hands and surfaces can also transfer dirt and bacteria. Store well Where you keep your sex doll when it’s not being used can have a big impact on how long it lasts. Not only is it important to store the toy away from direct sunlight, but it’s also important to cover it to prevent dust and dirt from collecting on it. Dust can be a nightmare, especially when accidentally mixed with lube or bodily fluids, so it’s important to keep your doll free of dust when not in use. It may be worth checking out this post by Mashable on how to store sex toys. Don’t overdo it Cleaning is important and it helps to prevent infections and other nasty side effects that can occur when toys aren’t cleaned properly. However, it’s also important not to overdo it, for example, by using cleaning agents that aren’t right for the material the doll is made of. Using harsh cleaning agents or scrubbing roughly may damage the doll and prevent it from lasting as long as. Cleaning a sex doll – step by step Now that we’ve covered some of the basics when it comes to cleaning and storage, it’s time to get into the step-by-step cleaning guide. 1. Take it apart Most sex dolls have removable male masturbators for mouths/vaginas/anuses, or a removable dildo. This helps make the insertable areas easier to clean, so it’s important to take the entire doll apart before you start cleaning and pay special attention to the areas that are most heavily used and/or those that come in contact with your penis/vagina. 2. Rinse The next step is to rinse the insertable parts off, washing away any lube or bodily fluids that might be on/in it. By rinsing it off before cleaning, it’s easier for the cleaning agent to get into the corners and other difficult-to-reach areas. 3. Wash Now it’s time to wash and disinfect the toy. Always try to use a specially designed toy cleaner to ensure no damage is done while cleaning. If you’re not sure what kind of cleaning agent to use, check the company’s website or the instruction manual to see what is recommended by them. If you’d like more information about how to wash the insertable sections of your doll, our fleshlight cleaning guide may be a good article to check out! 4. DRY! Now that you’ve gently but thoroughly washed the insertable part of your sex doll, it’s important to dry them thoroughly before reassembling it. Make sure you towel dry everything thoroughly and then leave it to air-dry overnight. It is vital that everything is completely dry before your doll is reassembled to prevent mold from forming or bacteria from spreading. 5. Put it back together When everything has been cleaned and dried, you can reassemble your doll ready for use next time. Make sure that your doll is stored away from direct sunlight and in a storage bag that prevents it from attracting dust. FAQ’s Are there any sex dolls you can recommend? Of course! We’ve got hundreds of posts about different kinds of sex toys, including posts about sex dolls. The best post to check out if you’re looking for sex doll recommendations is our post on the best sex dolls. In it, we cover various different customizable and non-customizable sex dolls as well as their pros and cons. What toy cleaner should I use when cleaning my sex doll? There are hundreds of toy cleaners available online, but we always recommend using a toy cleaner that’s recommended by the manufacturer. You should be able to find suggestions on the packaging or in the instruction manual. If not, then try one of the toy cleaners on our list of the best sex toy cleaners. The cleaning agents on this list are all made specifically for sex dolls and toys, so all you have to do is match the material your doll is made out of with a suitable cleaner. Can I boil the insertable parts of my doll? Some sex doll brands use materials where this is possible but, in general, unless it is explicitly stated in the instruction manual, it’s best to use a specially designed toy cleaner. Boiling can be a good way to remove bacteria and fungus, but if a toy isn’t suitable to boil then doing so can cause a great deal of damage to the toy. How can I make the most of my sex doll? There are many different ways you can enjoy your sex […]

Fisting is one of the most extreme fetishes out there, and you might be surprised at how popular the act is. Fisting can be one of the best sex experiences you have ever had. On the other hand, if you go off the rail, chances are you will hate it forever. We are going to be teaching you how to do it right and how to enjoy it like you never imagined. If you love fetishes, and fisting is something that has run over your head, read further. What Is Fisting? If you are not really into sex fetishes, chances are you might not have an idea what fisting is. If you have heard about it, there are dozens of things you might not know that we are going to be discussing in this article. The very essence of sexual pleasure is strongly tied to fisting, and it is difficult to separate sexual pleasure and fisting. In simple terms, fisting is an act that involves the insertion of a hand into a vagina or rectum. It can be your hand or your partner’s. The act is referred to by some names. We are certain you have heard some of these names being thrown around and, in some instances, quite wrongly. Fisting, handballing, brachioproctic insertion, or brachiovaginal, all mean the same thing, which is quite sexually satisfying. Why Do People Practice Fisting? Well, the main reason why fisting is a thing, a quite popular thing, to be precise, is that in terms of sexual pleasure, there are very few sexual acts that come close. Fisting is a sexual act that has in the past been described as the borderline orgasm act. Another reason why fisting is getting quite popular is that there is a feeling of fullness that comes with fisting. If you want to feel full in the literal and metaphorical sense, then it is possibly the only option out there for you. Fisting also provides people not just with high-end pleasure but also a sense of security in terms of sexual health. If done right, there is very little chance that people will contract sexually transmitted illnesses to one another. Imagine a sex act so intense that orgasm is guaranteed, plus it comes with a very little risk of infection. Well, you do not have to imagine because that is exactly what fisting brings to the table. Fisting. How to Do It Right Fisting is not complex, but it requires a lot of information to do it right. Fisting might seem simple: just place your hand in the rectum or vagina. Well, we hate to break it to you: it’s more complex than that. There is a need to understand that there is quite a huge gap between vaginal fisting and anal fisting. We are going to be looking at both of these separately. What is Vaginal Fisting? Well, it is the holy grail of sexual pleasure. Vaginal fisting is probably the most popular form of fisting out there, and if you are looking to get it right, these are some of the important tips you have to follow. How to Do Fisting How to Prepare for Fisting The most important part of fisting (although not exciting) is the preparation part. Let us take a look at all the elements that count during the preparation. The first thing we need to make very clear. If you are thinking about fisting, you need to take your time and prepare for a bit. The vagina is elastic, yes, but you have to be a bit accustomed to the feeling of fullness. Try to start with dildos and graduate from size to size until you can handle a large dildo. Once you are at this point, get to the fingers: one after the other until you can get all five in. That is the perfect answer to the question of how to start fisting. Getting the Supplies Many items need to be in place first before you get on with your fisting adventure. The most essential thing certainly has to be a lubricant. Although the vagina is elastic, getting a whole hand in there might be a huge toll on the elasticity. That is why it is important to get lubed up before undertaking the activity. There are several types of lube out there, but for vaginal fisting, we recommend oil-based lube. Water-based lube is most likely going to evaporate faster, and you might end up having to continuously reapply the lube. We know you won’t like that – it will disturb the rhythm of the act and make it a whole bore. There is also a need to get a couple of sex toys to factor into play. It will make the experience more diverse. Cleaning One more important thing about fisting is cleaning. There is a need to make sure that sexual hygiene standards are upheld to the utmost level. Remember, your vagina is quite sensitive and harbors many foreign microbes. The last thing you would want is to get an infection from such an exciting sex act. Get your hands cleaned up with detergent (make sure that it will not end up causing your vagina to react). There is also a need to get your vagina carefully cleaned up before the act. Actual Fisting Once you have taken a few trips down the vagina train, the next step is to get to the actual fisting in play. Lubricate You need to lubricate both your hands and vagina. We have already established that for this act, the best lubricant for fisting is a silicone-based lubricant. Once you are fully lubricated, the next step is getting to the real act, fisting. Easy Does It Fisting is not a sport for the faint-hearted: you need to be extremely careful. There is no need to rush it because it will make the whole process a bit uneasy and, well, quite painful. There’s the need to get stimulated as you go by. Try […]

No one can discredit the power of an orgasm. If you have had an orgasm (obviously, you have had one), you can agree with us that there is no feeling that comes close. The biggest problem, though, is people tend to think that the orgasm pathway is a one-way street. Penetrative sex is not the only way to achieve orgasm for both males and females. There is more to getting an orgasm than you thought. This is why you need to hear about the other kind of orgasm and how to nipple orgasm. Nipple Orgasm Well, it might sound new to most people, but, well, it is quite common in sex conversations these days. Can you get an orgasm from nipple play? Well, the answer is yes, they are real. Nipple orgasms happen as a result of the stimulation of the nipple area. You might not have thought of your nipples as a hotspot for pleasure. The good news is that we are about to change your mind and get your sex game to a whole different level. Nipple Orgasms: How they work? The nipples are some of the most active erogenous zones on the human body. The nipples are littered with lots of nerve endings, and it easily makes them an ideal point for stimulation. We cannot tell that the nipples are the most sensitive parts of your body. Obviously, the clitoris and the penis take that cup, but, trust us they come very close. Stimulating the nipples will send signals to the genital cortex. Once signals reach that end, it’s pleasure and nothing else. Why Do People Overlook Nipples? As a source of sexual pleasure, people tend to overlook nipples. The reason for this might be because people do not understand the importance of nipples as a source of sexual pleasure. We are about to write those wrongs and make sure that your sex life becomes fiery and explosive. Advantages of Nipple Orgasm The nipple orgasm has dozens of advantages over the conventional orgasm. We will go through them to show you what you have been missing and what you will be getting from the nipple orgasm. No-Risk of STIs You know that all penetrative sex forms come with a few side effects. Although there are protection methods, you might be a little careless and get the orgasm with some STIs on top. Now with the nipple orgasm, you are set! And an STI is one thing you don’t have to worry about. If done right, there is very little chance that your partner will pass a disease to you. Imagine getting an explosive orgasm and not having to worry about getting sick. The nipple orgasm is the perfect safe orgasm! Multiple Orgasms One orgasm might not be enough. Trying to go for orgasm number two or three or four or five through penetrative sex might be painful, and your partner might not be up to the task. With the nipple orgasm now, there is no limit to how many orgasms you can have. The joy that comes with multiple orgasms is unmatched, and we know: if you have not had an orgasm before, nipple-gasms are the way to go. The best part is even if you have a penis or a vagina, a nipplegasm is coming your way. How to Get Nipple Orgasm Now that you are convinced that you need a nipple orgasm in your life, we will teach you how to go about getting one. A nipple orgasm is a little complex, and you need to ensure that you get all the information. The last thing you would want is to try it out and get disappointed in the end. The good news is that there are dozens of ways you can get to that orgasm, and we will give you nothing but the best tips to make sure you do it right. Set Up Is Everything If there is anything that can set up the tone of any sexual activity, it is the surroundings. Remember, sexual pleasure is mental, and you have to try to make sure that you see, hear and feel sexually comfortable. That is how arousal works. The best way to get yourself into shape for the orgasm to come is to be in a comfortable place. For example, if you are the romantic type, you can always get your candlelight, your soft music, and, maybe, a few rose petals to light up the room. Alternatively, if you like it rough, you can throw in a lot of rubber and leather to bring out that gothic alter ego that makes it exciting. The secret to creating a perfect environment for an orgasm is understanding what turns you on. If you feel you need to add a little personal flavor to the room, please do that. Get Comfortable Comfort is the backbone of sexual pleasure. Try to be in a position where you are comfortable. There are dozens of positions for nipple play that you will enjoy, especially if you are going at it with a partner. If you are going solo, it is essential to find a position that will make it easy for you because it might take quite a while to get to the promised land. There are dozens of sex positions you can try for nipple play. Changing positions regularly will make the whole experience intense. Twist, Pinch, and Stroke The nipples are not the biggest sex organ on your body. It means you have to focus and make sure that you get everywhere effectively. It is also quite an advantage because it means that the nerves are concentrated in one place. It is a good thing you get to focus on a small area. Your hands are the primary tool you have. If you are going solo, try to stroke first. It will certainly get your nipples erected. Once they are erected, you can get to the pinching. Pinch both nipples at once – it will […]